This 4th of July weekend my wing and I hooked up with these two down ass chicks who wanted to party as hard as we did. Long storey short we ended up going on a two day bender with them, witch was fun as hell. =) Now its been a few days since I’ve seen them, but the one I hooked up with keeps calling me and sending me hella text messages calling me baby and shit.


To complicate this matter even further, she’s going to be moving to my home town of LA. Her and her friend were down in the city today looking for an apparoment and wanted my address so they could spend the night.. I thought about saying yes and testing out styles group massage technique, but vetoed the idea on the grounds that if she found out where I lived the inevitable barrage of bullshit unannounced visits was sure to follow and I cant be having that.


I don’t want to loose her as a booty call because its hard to find HBs that can party like we can. However on the same note I don’t want her to get the wrong idea and think it’s expectable to be calling me all kinds. I was thinking about freezing her out but I think that will only make matters worse. Any ideas on how to deal with this? Thanks

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There's different ways of reading her actions. She could be calling you baby and texting you a bunch cause she's super attracted and that's it, or she could be really needy like you're afraid. Only way you'll find out is by seeing where things are gonna head and letting her know that you're not looking for a relationship right now, so you can see whether she's gonna be down for just a casual thing.

I wouldn't worry about the unexpected visits and stuff unless you see her as that type of person, in which case, you tell her that you want her to call before she drops by and if she doesn't, you may be busy or something (she'll assume that you've got other girls or some reason not to let her in, so she'll call first).

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~ Rye

i say if you like her. then keep her..