I went downtown last night for the fireworks, got trashed before I went down and had even more beer once I got there. This girl invited our group up to a rooftop party, free beer, food, etc. I was just kickin the beers back, and text messaging.

Big mistake. I called this girl babe and told her "How much I like her" she was very interested in me before this. Now I have a feeling I completely butchered my game last night. I woke up with no reconciliation of it until I read the messages.

I screwed up really bad, how can I dig myself out of this hole?

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Hmm. I don't know how effective this would be, but let her know that you were drunk that night. See how she reacts towards you. If its anything negetive, then do a freeze out.

Just by chance was this the Red White and Boom?

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haha yeah man it was

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First I would find out how she felt about you saying all that and roll with it from there.

If she's bugged out get your balls back by saying it wasn't you but a wasted friend that pulled a drunk text. Usually its a turn off when a girl finds out you drunk dialed/texted her. And if she's as hooked as you say she is one drunk text isn't going to butcher anything. So forget the advice I just gave and just chill out, smoke a cigarette, and act like nothing ever happened unless she confronts you about it.

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What is the best thing to text a girl that you kissed and danced with at a bar the night before. I feel like making contact is nessecary. but can't think of what to say?

For abrightone:

Call her, you don't need to be succesful with the phonecall. Just call her, and be funny in the phone, set up a date 2 or chitchat for a few minutes.

I would never make my first contact with a girl whose number I've got as text message. But thats just me Good luck.

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I think I have screwed it up terribly. We'll see. I am new at this - at game in general - though it has been wonderful so far. It's no longer difficult to talk to women in bars; one friend and I had more girls dancing on us at one time last night than we could handle and I ended up kissing who I had been attracted to from jump street. But I did text her, I said: "Hey, we both had a few cocktails, and I'm trying to remember... Are u pretty? " I think that was a bad move and am thinking of calling her and saying, "listen, that was a poor attempt at a shitty joke. What are your plans for.... DAY"

Thoughts?

Hahaha that's a good text. I'll keep that in mind. Honestly I think you're overly analyzing it. Too me its clearly a joke, and if she can't take a joke then she can go fuck herself. I'd give her a call in a few days and if she doesn't pick up then just leave it alone, ya know? Make no apologies for something as dumb as that.

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you are right. that is exactly what i'll do

Oh yeah, another thing. When you call her and if she picks up act like the text never existed. If she seems moody or negative overcome it by acting positively constantly. Aight? Stay positive about this buddy you had what it takes to dance and kiss her.

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Well, she ended up texting me back later. I didn't text her again or anything, it just took her a long while to respond. She said "of course I'm pretty" I said "I know, I was joking." She said "I thought you might be , thanks! we all had a blast last night" To which I did not respond...

Any thoughts on how to proceed?

Also, I used an approach I liked today and got an N-close with it.

I had been telling my friend at the office, who's married, all morning about how wonderful of a weekend I had and some of the trends that I saw develop in the three nights I spent out sarging. We came back into the office from lunch and there was an HB8 standing in the main lobby downstairs. My friend said, "Well let's see what you've got" to which I replied, "OK". I got a little bit of AA but I did not want to chicken out, this was my first approach outside of a social setting. But I opened with, "Real quick, can I get your take on something?" she replied, "Sure." I said, "I'm buying a top as a birthday present for my sister, she has a figure not too different from yours, though I'm not sure what size she wears. Do you think I should error on the side of too big or too small? I don't want to insult her." I stayed very positive and upbeat while she responded. She ended up telling me to get her a size small. To which I replied, "Ok, well I'm going to call you if this doesn't work out. What's your number?" and she gave it to me... My heart was racing when I finally got on the elevator, but it was the good kind of adrenaline rush!

Is this too cheesy/common of an open, or should I continue to use it out of a social setting? The time constraint was there as I was obviously getting on an elevator to go back up to my office.