The power of no is greater than you can imagine.

1.After building attraction and comfort with a female, delivering an SOI and getting her imagining and thinking about it (your SOI) has accomplished half of end game. Even if the answer is "no".

An SOI will get her imagining the phsyical interaction between you two.

"No" won't take back her imagining it. "No" is almost a litmus test to see how far you are on gaining her comfort and trust in order to get the lay. And the more SOI's you drop on her the more she'll think and imagine it, and more natural it will seem to her when it happens and increase the chances of it happening. Use an SOI and get rejected, gain a little more comfort, SOI, more comfort, SOI and repeat until your goal is reached.

2. Saying "No" as an initial response to a date, sex or whatever gives you the power in what happens between you and the female. You determine what happens from that point on.

She will have to work to gain something from you. Although this gives you power it can also be very stressful for her. So don't abuse it.

3. "No" is half of push-pull. "Yes" is the other half.

4. If you give an answer of "Yes" to a girl when she didn't earn it is basically handing her your balls on a silver platter. So "No" is necessary. Don't get pussywhipped.

And lastly don't be an asshole about any of this. That is all for now.

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Hey look! A good-hearted responsible person who shows evidence of real life experience!

This looks like very solid progress from that one thread you posted about getting back your ex.

Keep it real man. Good shit.

Thanks.

Just trying to share solid ideas I get from experience and gurus.

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