OMG I need to work like an idiot with something I don't want to do so I can earn SHITLOADS of money to buy myself a new car/House/Stuff....Or? Personally I've set two goals for my life, or two things that I do feel that I need to make the best out of my life.
The first thing is to fill my life with things to do which I like. If I don't want to study, then I won't. If I want to become a professional trashpicker then I will.. Pretty simple. This is becuase society has made us humans believe that our goal with life is to work and benefit to the society and not to ourselfs. Just think about what you will ask yourself on your deathbed. When you die, will you ask yourself : Why didn't I work more? No you won't!! You will ask yourself, Why didn't I fuck that chick, Or why didnt I try skydiving? Why didn't I become a rockstar like I always wanted? Why
DID i follow my mothers dream and became a doctor?
The second thing is girls. There are two reasons we do things in life. The first thing is for ourselves. If we meet a friend it is to make ourselfes happy or less bored. If we help out a stranger with crossing the street it is to make ourselves feel better inside or possible make ourselves not feel bad for not helping the poor fellow. The second reasons is girls/women/chicks!!! Why do you dress nice? To impress the opposite sex!! Why do you work like an idiot so you can buy a cool car? Partly becuase it is fun to drive but mostly to impress others, what others? GIRLS! We are still cavemen who have the primary goal to replicate, or for us since we have condoms to have sex! I'm not saying that you only should have ONS, becuase you can have sex in a relationship to you know
For about 2 months ago I was this total AFC who haden't got laid since i broke up with my ex-GF 9 months earlier. I will do a short summary of my life during the last two months...
Early May->Mid May: Found out about "The Game": Read it, tried a few of the things and started to become a bit more happy and confident that I could also get girls.
Mid May->Early June: Found out about a Pick Up Forum that I spent alot of time in, reading routines, tips and trix. Got my hands on The Annhilation Method By style and watched the 9 DVDs with a live seminar where it is recorded. I got some really nice tips and trix. Learned abit about what mindset I should have and how I should react. More or less it was "The Game" But in a movieformat. I got bit more confident and started to approch girls in clubs with opinion operners. But I still had a very big Approch Anxiety and it stopped me from approching 90% of the sets I wanted to. Actually now when I think about it, the other 10% were sets opened by friends.
Early June->Mid June: I Made a deal with a guy who seemed to have very much knowledge about Pick Up Artisting. The deal was that I got his e-book for free if I would post a totally honest review on a Pick Up Artist Forum, even if it was good or bad for him. His Name is Chris and you can find his book on the webpage
http://www.IcanMAKEyouSEXY.com . The book is all about how you can and should become a REAL Alpha Male. The book was awesome, it really helped me with my innergame, and it helped me alot. But the book is very much about how you should become, and really lacks tips and missons to do to get this mindset.
(Only read 3/4 of the book due to finding other material) Nevertheless it really helped me. With this newfound mindset, or part of a mindset I started to approch girls again. After 1 week I went to a party where i Kissclosed a girl for the second time during the last 8 months. I could have went further but she was a virgin so I didn't feel for it. 3 Days later I met a friend I rarely meet who I have always thought was SO FUCKING HOT. She is a cousin of friends girlfriend. After spending about 2 days with her I had changed our Friendrelationship into a Friends with benefits relation and got my first F-close in 8 months. Now You May ask, HOW? What routines did you use?
The routines I used were the basic once. Being Social and cocky funny. Doing The Cube on her for fun. Push and Pull. Freeze outs when it was needed. But the Basic thing for me was that I had the guts to actually pull it off. If it haden't been for newfound Mindset I would probebly never had the guts to try stuff on her. If it haden't been for the routines it would have taken a longer time, but I'm 95% sure I would have made it eventually. A few days back I asked the girl when she knew she had the hots for me, and it was way earlier than I thought. It was at a party 3 months back, but she thought I wasen't intressed in her becuase I didn't show it to her. She is now a LTR.
Mid June->Late June
Been Nursing my LTR quite a bit but also had some very fun experiences where her friends actually flirted with me behind her back becuase they thought I was So much ALPHA that they wanted me. But that is a minor story. The big story is that during the last two days I've been listening to some of the "Attract and Date by Shark (Ranko Magami)" 8 CDs. Rankho is a a guy who really have broken down the AFC Mindset to a level which I still haven't found elsewhere. He brakes down all our Social fears and thoughts to our childhood and explain how we get them and why we ain't born to think/feel that way. During 2 days and 2CDs deep into his material I've had a HUGE Confidenceboost and got a WHOLE NEW MINDSET! He is really improving my natural/inner game. His English is pretty bad, but understandable. He got this really charismatic voice which is a pleasure to listen to. His homepage is
http://www.attractanddate.com
Going from Being an AFC to being an AFC loaded with routines. To start to improve my inner game to getting very good innergame with the use or routines in just two months! My newfound mindset will help me more in life than my parents/school ever has. And my new mindset + routines will/have help me more with girls than anything ever has. Kinda cool how your life can change if you find the right teacher!
/Chris T
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