I sit here smoking a cigarette while listening to Christmas music; endulging in tonights success.

A new twist to pick up. I no longer take into account who I'm running game on. Regardless of how stunning, charming and beautiful a girl may be, I now consider it all a theatrical act. I realize how simple and enjoyable this game can be. Overthinking and complicating things will be your downfall in the middle of a pickup. It leads to doubts and questions that feed your insecurities and confidence issues.

Why the hell should any of you focus on the beauty and charm of a girl while picking up? Subconsciously you already find her attractive. There's no need to put it on the pedestal and focus on it. Your game is what's going to get her to be attracted to you. Picking up is more of a performance than actually picking up. Focus on your performance.
Be smooth as silk.

Do not be intimidated.

Her beauty does not give her a right to intimidate you. Inside she lacks self cofidence and is insecure about herself. That's why women love attention. It reassures them of their beauty and how much they are wanted. They don't know what they want anyways. If you can't feed them this attention they turn into a bitch. Slowly melting her bitch shield is half the fun of it anyways. In the end the reward is almost always the same-mediocre sex.

Don't be afraid to let yourself go though. Falling in love/having feelings for someone is a beautiful thing. It makes the sex a lot more passionate and fun. Be tough as nails and don't be afraid to put down your foot when she wrongs you. Don't lose your value, it is all you have in this world.

But do not let your feelings control you. Control them and maintain control. So in the middle of a pick up, keep in mind that you actually don't have feelings for her. Infact you don't even know her. You're performing for yourself. Nobody else. Don't be afraid to speak aloud. Conflicting values means nothing. A girls values can be easily changed. Infact don't even ask about her values, its not important. Make sure you share yours though. If she doesn't agree with them, and you do come across a common value, it makes it that much more beautiful. She will also change her values for you. Come off with force but smooth as silk.

Tell her what she needs to do to win you over. Subconsciously she'll end up keeping it in mind if there does end up being some form of relationship.
Relationships are tricky though. It's a whole new game. It's also hard work. You can never slip when it comes to your values. Unless you embody certain concepts it will be a long hard performance.

Every form of game should be considered a performance. Not because you should be 'fake' or 'act' differently, by all means be yourself. Its a performance because there is an audience/critique; but only one, it is yourself. Nobody else should have an opinion, especially you're target. You are inviting her to your reality, through your performance.

Imagine yourself on a stage while running any kind of game. You are also in the audience watching it. Just you.

Do not be afraid to drop SOI's or IOI's after extracting the target. She followed you to isolation. She wants it. Even if she says 'no' or responds to it negatively, stay positive. An SOI has the power to create a picture inside the girls mind. Even if she says 'no', she saw it. Continue you're game.

You create your own success.

P.S. I rant a lot.

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Great stuff, man. It's very good to keep this stuff in mind for your inner game. The less you give a shit, the more you will succeed.

P.S. You don't check your inbox much, do you?

Great post.

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