last night i was talking to an HB who im "kind of seeing" but she lives quite a while away... (we go to the same college but she lives about 200 miles away in the summer).
Anyway, i dont want to be exlcusive with her. and yesterday she commented on the fact that in my facebook it seems like im always with multiple girls in my pictures and stuff.
I went with the, "i know... its a curse" route and she ate it up.
but then she says, "but you arent interested in any of them?" which is untrue. What would have been the proper way of dealing with this. i dont wanna be dishonest with her and i dont want to hurt her feelings either.
i know that i cant always have both in these situations, but what would have been the ideal response?

You should have given her an honest answer. She isn't your girlfriend, you're single and she won't think any less of you if you are interested in other girls. In fact, it's probably DHVing. She knows she has to work to get all of you. I'm sure everyone will agree with me on this one,

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I wholeheartedly agree with Beschatten.

Yeah that " ohhh poor me it's a curse haha!" thing is great, and what the others said is all gravy.

But for future reference.....
What I do and it always fixes this problem you have that you get later on.
Is just right from the start you make it obvious that all you want is just an "open relationship"; you guys see each other and it's kind of like you two are dating, but you can both see other people.

since you already told her its a curse ... you might as well tell her now that you're picky guy and these girls just don't stop stalking you... that would be a good way to raise DHV...