| I'd set a strong frame to establish a reality that she was actually back in high school, experiencing a real high school prom all over again, except better. I'd start off by challenging her imaginative ability so that she'd access her imagination willingly and strongly. "You know, I bet most people just see your beauty on a shallow level and nothing else. However, I bet that on the inside, you actually have a pretty active and strong imagination. You just seem like the type of girl who'd be able to create a fantastic world where anything can happen. Can you imagine fun things like that? Let's play pretend. Tonight, you're not going to be some jaded, stuck-up model going to some high school prom for an MTV show. Tonight, you're going to be little Suzie Smith (whatever her name is), a high school girl going to prom for the first time, just like when you were REALLY in high school. Hold still. (fix her hair a little bit - this kino compliance test will act as backward rationalization for her to buy into your frame) There we go. All better. (smile)"
Then, just like any roleplay strategy, I'd treat her and talk to her like a little high school girl. I'd also tell stories that actually rewrite parts of past so that she can fully buy into the frame at even a subconscious level. For example, I could be all like "OMG remember last week when we pulled that fire alarm? You we're soooo excited to do it but then you got soooo scared. Good thing I was there or you would have seriously peed your pants."
When all the other guys would be hitting on her and stuff, I'd tease her for being "Miss Popular" and for being a bad date, ignoring her date. I'd have a strong leading frame because she's just a little high school girl tonight and lead her by the hand to the dance floor and tables and stuff. Also, I'd do stuff like:
"Hey, I've got a secret to tell you. (lean in and motion for her to lean in as well. Look deep into her eyes and pause to create some sexual tension. Triangular gaze slowly, then kiss her on the cheek innocently.)"
Kino-escalate on the dance floor, kiss her on the neck, bite it softly, get her slightly aroused, then stop abruptly and dance innocently for the "one step back" part of the "two steps forward, one step back" formula. Then, lead her by the hand to some place more secluded so you can isolate from everybody else. Find a closet or something. If she says anything while to and in the closet or wherever, just be like "No" (lol) and don't let her talk. Make out. Exchange real phone numbers at some point.
Number one factor is leading frame.
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