Tired of my friends.. They are holding me down..



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PostPosted: Sat May 24, 2008 2:38 am 
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Hi folks.. I need advice here.

I have a very restricted group of friends when it comes to going out at night.

The thing is they are always complaining that they have nothing to do and that life is boring.. So I call them to go out and they always flake. And guess what? The next day they are complaining over the same shit again.

I'm tired of them, really. Most of the times when I get to go out with them they always want to go to the cheapest bars just to get drunk! I have no problem with paying more to be on a place with many girls and where we can meet people.

And when I finally get them to go to a club with me they always do the MOST AFC things: predatory walk through the venue, shy, DLV's etc.. and this fucks my game.

I don't fit them but it's hard to meet new people right now because I study 12 hours a day.

Don't get me wrong.. I'm desperate to find new friends and in fact I'm making friends with the hot girls I know and I'm starting to go out with them but it's not enough.

Do you have any advice?


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PostPosted: Sat May 24, 2008 3:18 am 
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I was in the same boat man. Cut off connections with those people for awhile, make a new group of friends. Go out sarging alone and stuff. It's the only way you can break away from the AFC image people have of you. You said you study so try sarging at campus.
Either that or you can try to introduce a close friend to PUA.

Go out each day, not with the intention of picking up chicks, but just meeting at least one new and interesting person.

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PostPosted: Sat May 24, 2008 5:26 pm 
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I'm trying to introduce two of them to PUA and I told them directly "you may think it doesn't work but you will see your life improving in every way you want".

But I'm facing a wall here.. they JUST WANT to complain. They don't studdy to college, they don't have perspective on jobs. All they do is get high as much as they can.

I think I'll cut relations little by little until I find new friends that meet my new standards.

if you have anything to say I'd be glad to know


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PostPosted: Sat May 24, 2008 5:51 pm 
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yea I think you're doing the right thing. If they're not ready to change, fuck them.
I was like that once, when I came across this forum 3 years ago. I wasn't ready to change back then. I had a lot of inner game issues to work out.
I quit doing drugs a year ago and got back into the game. My frame is really strong now (I know who I am, what I desire, what my goals are); I just need to perfect the mystery method and understand social dynamics better.

So maybe your friends just aren't ready. They don't know what they want in life, or maybe they gave up too easily. They may never be ready to change (and if we don't evolve we eventually stop existing), but you musn't wait for them because the truth is, you can't help a person who doesn't want to help themself. Your name ends in br so I assume you're brazilian and have heard of the inspirational writer/speaker Paulo Coelho. Maybe you've read some of his books and can share with your friends what you learned.

I believe that when your friends start to notice that your life is improving, and that you're out there making a name for yourself, is when they will be motivated to change their own lives (if they're still your friends by then).

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