First time clubbing, tips?



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PostPosted: Thu May 22, 2008 9:39 pm 
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I know nothing about it. Don't know what to wear or anything like that.

How do you approach girls in clubs? I'm assuming it won't be quiet enough to talk to them.

What about dancing? Is it pretty much just grinding? How would a guy dance alone?


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PostPosted: Thu May 22, 2008 9:58 pm 
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I know nothing about it. Don't know what to wear or anything like that.
Drive by the place a night your not going and see what the people waiting in line are wearing. It all depends on the place, hip hop clubs tend to be less strict with dress then say a upscale dance club. Usually rule of thumb is that its much worse to under dress then to over dress.
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How do you approach girls in clubs? I'm assuming it won't be quiet enough to talk to them.
Some places it may be quite enough but more then likely it wont feel like people will be able to hear you. There are ways of handling this, but i prefer to be in venues with at least one major quiter area. Check around the forums for posts about this question i know there are a few.
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What about dancing? Is it pretty much just grinding? How would a guy dance alone?
Depends on the club, if its hip hop you can pretty much dance alone...if its like 80/90's music you prob wont do so hot alone. Yes when you dance with a chick it will probably be mostly bump and grind, just dont run upto a chick and rub your junk on her...that wont be smoothe.

If your unsure about dancing either take lessons, take a girl who knows how to dance, or watch other guys and imitate it. Whatever you do while dancing you have to apear comfortable and confident outwardly at least.

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PostPosted: Fri May 23, 2008 2:57 pm 
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A few tips:

1. Check out their websites to get a feel for the place. If it's your first time clubbing, dress according to what you see in pictures-- no need to get too showy.

2. Get to the place early. That way you have a chance to acclimate to the setting.

3. Situational openers may be a good start: Stand next to the girl that you want to talk to and make an observation about the club...be sure to make it feel natural.

it might come across as a little weak, but it's a good way to start things out.

Good luck,

Jay Wa


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