| i edited the post and have cut it down as much as i can so you get the general picture of what has been going on. let me know where u think I went wrong
Let me start from the start…long read, I’m new at this and this is my 1st online that moved to a meet...
About a month ago now I did some online sarging and spoke to this girl (threads are in the online forum). After a few weeks of running internet msn game getting her number, spending time on the phone talking (mainly her calling me, I do the pua and run 15min convo’s every now and again), building attraction, and stuff for when we meet, we arrange to meet with much "c&f" convo going towards her saying I should pay for her because it’s a date, and so we met up.
The meet
we ate, walked, talked, I negged, kino’d, I started from a1 and we kissed four hours into the meet around the "C2" stage of MM.
We spent a few more hours with each other, did some more "C2", I run the "5 question game". Kissed again spontaneous as we were walking arm in arm.
Changed location, did some "C1" and "C2". We then said good bye and she initiated the kiss. Five hours spent together face to face.
2 weeks on
Since then, we spent sometime on the phone until her minuets went about a week ago. We have not spoken so much since.
We spoke on msn for a short time, I call her once or twice in the first week….last Sunday I call her and she virtually pushes me off the phone, conversation lasted a little longer than two minuets.
I go cold on her for a little while. I have exams anyway so it wasn’t hard for me to go cold I haven’t been on msn since the convo. She txt me on the Monday and sends me an email on facebook
The email and text
The email said sorry in a round about way but not really saying sorry, the text said hey, how are u? Sent about 6 hours after the email…I was in the library so didn’t reply to the mail or txt. I call her later that night….
The phone call
i called her back later and she said I wasn’t expecting u to call, i ask why because u pushed me off the phone last night and she defends it by saying i wasn’t that bad but i just fort you'd txt back because i txt u...i interrupted and said well i fort i'd call u back seeing as u desperately trying to contact me facebook and now a txt...she says i wasn’t trying to contact u I toped up because I had other people to call...said in a joke "c&f" way
then I asked her if she got with any guys last night, she said last night was good by the waywith a sarcastic tone. She then explained why she "pushed" me off the phone and then told me she didn’t get with anyone, I reply yeah if u say so then she says, we are not together so I don’t have to explain myself to you but if you don’t believe me that’s fine,
Friday….i.e. today
Now this is where im confused.
I come on msn, she signs in 1mins after and says hi as soon as she does, we talk...just catch up I say im free and back home near where she is next week and that I want my hat back.
I call her later on that night for 15mins. we talk but now I feel like I’m back in a1, conversation is general, noting much about us, hard to be c&f, nothing to negg because I’ve done it all before.
We kind of arrange to meet next week Friday when I’m back from university and she has a day off. She’s not sure about meeting, tells me it because she has plans already.
Where do I go from here I feel like there’s a big backwards step after the 2min conversation we had on the phone and then the day after when I called her. She not sure about meeting on Friday either.
What should I do on the Friday considering I feel like I’m back in a1…I’m thinking my time bridging didn’t work well but it has only been 2 or 3 days in-between talking?
Thanks in advance
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