Ok boys, good news i finally got laid! woo!

In brief i met this girl, went for a coffee read her palm, then went got a meal, walked her back to hers, she invited me in. We shagged!

That sounds quiet good you may say but i got a bit to aroused too quick if you know what i mean. luckily i manged to hide that fact and pretend nothing happened as my jeans were still on. So i purposly delayed having sex until i could get it up again, when i need i took my jean boxers off and then she went on top, it didnt last long, so i need some help with this problem.

I dont know if it was just because it was my first time but either way pretty embarressed. so your adviceis appreciated.

Sorry if in wrong section

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im the type of guy that likes to rome around,im never in one place, i rome from town to town, im a wonderer, yeh a wonderer, im a wonderer....

most guys dont last long their first time. What you need to do is focus more on the girls arousal. Go down on her, focus on making her feel good. The more you get in tuned with her, the better you will get in tune with yourself and your own sexuality.

I did this, im 20 years old and i have never had a girl out last me. At first i would blow my load after only a few minutes, you learn to control it. There are exercises you can do, but for a lot of guys thats getting too involved.

Ive had girls tell me, "now i want you to cum, I want to make YOU feel good now" after like an hour or so of sex and i just tell them, look i can last 2 minutes or 2 hours, dont worry about me...im going to cum either way Sometimes ill tell a girl before we have sex "i gurantee I can outlast you...and this sometimes can turn a good girl into a wild woman. lol

Basically practice makes perfect....or pretty close to perfect for most guys

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thanks mate,good news is she wants me to go to hers tomorrow, but more advice is good, or just any general tips. sorry to be graphic

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im the type of guy that likes to rome around,im never in one place, i rome from town to town, im a wonderer, yeh a wonderer, im a wonderer....

I was a quick draw before. We've all been there. But, it was your 1st time my friend, kick back and enjoy the moment! There is no need to be embarassed! Be happy that you're not a virgin anymore! Think about how long you probably waited for the moment to arrive. Now it did! Congratulations!!! I'm sure everyone in the forum is happy for you. High five to you!!!!!!! Don't be embarassed.

I read books on Tao and Kama Sutra.

Try these two books:

"Red-Hot Sex the Kama Sutra Way" by: Richard Emerson

"Sexual Reflexology" 'Activating the Taoist Points of Love'
By: William U. Wei


Tip:
I learned to hold it back by tightening you lower Abdomen area and holding it in the same way you would if you have to pee.

Thanks for the advice, i feel a lot more confident now ive finally done it, something i dont need to worry about any more, finally got there at 19, we both agreed that we going to be relaxed so i think i can use the oppotunity to build up some air miles. which is fine by me, ill admit i know i can do better than her but its still good practice, i almost feel like i can approach more women now ive done it.

thanks again, peace out, High Five

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im the type of guy that likes to rome around,im never in one place, i rome from town to town, im a wonderer, yeh a wonderer, im a wonderer....

Hi Beno,

Congrats, bro, but remember to practice safe sex... and use condoms always.

Sorry, it's just the doctor side of me coming out.

With time and experience, you'll be able to control your "excitement" better. If not, there's actually a really safe medication that can delay the big O to a normal range.

Hope this helps,


Respectfully,

M

Did it for a second time today went a bit better...yeh and ofcourse i used a condom you have to be careful shes on the pill aswell so dont need to be worried about getting her up the duff either.

Thanks for the advice.

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im the type of guy that likes to rome around,im never in one place, i rome from town to town, im a wonderer, yeh a wonderer, im a wonderer....

hahahahaha, i had the same problem bro, i think the first time i was on my way to getting laid i actually blew my load before my pants were off and i did the stall tactic you used too. yeah so don't worry about it, everytime you have sex you will be able to control it more and more. until you reach the point where like drunk, said she will get off multiple times before you even reach climax. granted that takes practice, but believe me its not far fetched by any sense of the imagination, and any guy is capable of it. if you don't see a change in your stamina in a few more runs...i would begin to get worried and think about researching some methods to enhance your endurance. one method I use when I haven't gotten laid in a while and I am going out either to get laid or sarge at a club/bar. I'll clear the pipes out about an hour before I leave to go do whatever, doing so clears not only your sexual tension/frustration (whatever it may be), it also clears your head and allows you to think more clearly. cause face it, when a man hasn't gotten any ass in a while we begin to think skewed. also, a rather funny method I read from Style was, jerking it before an encounter and do not clear all of your load out, doing so will allow you to fuck for hours because your literally not going to able to finish...like I said, don't even consider either of these until you think you need to. All of us were minute men at one point, anyone who tells you otherwise is a lier. Don't sweat it bro, and once again congrats.

nice job on the lay though, its all mental

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"Man is the pupil, pain is his teacher."

yeh...got to love the stall tactic haha

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im the type of guy that likes to rome around,im never in one place, i rome from town to town, im a wonderer, yeh a wonderer, im a wonderer....

Technicaly this is a lay report and it would of been more beneficial to the noobs on this forum if you posted a more detailed account of how you came to meet this woman, how you played out the interaction and what processes you went through. But anyways congrats on losing your V.

Over excitement is a problem for most men to begin with dont worry it fades. In the mean time tho if you find you getting to turned on try thinking of somthing else or in turn just slow down the interacrion to let your jets cool off. Alot of woman like this if you make it out to be teasing.

It might also help to have a pint to calm your nervs. After all most of it is just mental. From a young age sex is made out to be such a big thing and it can be daunting. Just let your mind ease.

I give you the out most respect for being honest about this situation...

All men, and I don't give a fuck who you are, have had this problem..

Nothing to worry about, but I can tell you this much, you were too horny...

Nothing wrong in being horny, you just gotta be real smooth and easy, no need to rush it ya know, so you take yer time...

The best advice I can give is do the research homie...

Trust me, google works wonders, and there is a lot of free shit out there you just gotta be willing to read and do...

Try this link below...
http://www.healthyplace.com/communities ... se_men.asp

Just take it a day at a time homie...

Also, cut down on the masturbation...I'm being dead serious, I limit myself to once a week, so that way I make myself get lays instead of my hand... But the important thing, it teaches you discipline...

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