I thought it might be a good idea to hear from people on this board and have them share where their lives started, where they are now and how their lives have changed for the better (or the worse) after taking up PU.

I think that anybody that might be struggling might be able to get a few pick-me-ups and know that positive changes can happen.

Share Up.

I was a 16 year old in my junior year of high school that had never had a gf, or even kissed a girl for the matter. i was a loser. once i started reading up on pua, i started to get noticed around school. i enhanced my circle of friends by adding some of the more popular kids. i started to be more confident in everything i did. now just a couple of short months later im still rising in popularity and i just went to prom with one of the hottest and most popular girls in my school.

Never considered myself a PUA, but I do very much enjoy dating women. What comes after (ahem) is a bonus. It's easy(-er) for me because I wear a uniform in my job, but to attribute blame? The LTR I had when I was 18-21, denying me of the pleasure of shagging a load of available HBs at university.

I was introduced to pu by my cousin, last summer. now almost a year later I can tribute my success to this game. Before I was lucky to have one girlfriend a year, and I mean hb6. I lost weight, got into shape, took up mma, and now this year Ive dated many hb7-9s. gotta love it, this summer is gonna be great cheers to all the pua's who helped me along the journey and hopefully more success will come, btw Im 16.

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-NO REGARD MMA-

I never had much problems with women before I started to get into the PUA stuff, but I was more of a relationship kinda guy. I jumped from one LTR to another, the girls were usually HB8's, pretty, but never the most gorgeous ones.

After I had dated my first model girl (HB9.5) for half a year and got dumped for the first time in my life, I figured I could improve. After reading PUA materials I realized that I had behaved just like the basic wussy. I believed this model-girl was simply too good to be true etc. and it showed in my behaviour.

One would think that the PUA lifestyle change has been great for me, I go out with really pretty girls HB9+'s quite often, have had my fair share of models too, all thanks to understading the dynamics of interaction better..

But the flip-side of the coin.. It has all become maybe a bit too much of a game. I don't feel the anxiety anymore that one used to have as an AFC, not knowing what is going to happen next etc. having the thoughts about "should I call her 'cause I haven't heard from her for 1-2 days" etc. At some level, it makes life cynical.

Another turn for the worse is that once I realized that with the right attitude you can have pretty much any girl, I've raised my standards, maybe even too high.

But in the end, if I had to choose again, I'd still go for the PUA way, its always nicer to be on the winning-team