Ok so sometimes I hit flakes and I usually just delete their number and thats that, but what if someone starts flaking in a relationship or even if someone you have been on a few dates with starts flaking in that situation I feel it would be beneficial to have some sort of strategies for how to deal with this and some comments and such to tease them about it.

I read a few of the things from Tyler and it was pretty good but I really wasn't very impressed with it and thought it woudlnt' work in a more relationship or mini-been dating scenario so I wanted to see if we can compile a list of some ideas and routines for dealing with flakes. Also if there are any previous posts like this that would be helpful. I wasn to become a master of countering flakes.

I did a search and found some comments on it but nothing really. I will try to make a post later and compile everythign I can find including tylers routines, but I just want to hear how you guys deal with it, besdies just screw her theres 100s more out there and number delete.

I feel the best strategy would involve some form of teasing her about it then DHV then punish her with a freeze out until shes asking you to hang out, but I haven't really put anything together.

Flaking is not ez to recover from, I have alot of this the past couple months really. I still havent discovered anything thats worth value to counter with.

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i think, maybe the best bet if you have a serious flake problem with a girl but for some reason dont want to just jump ship on the effort is to:

-back off for a few days so it seems like you are busy. this way you are sort of demonstrating value in that you seem like you have something to do other than contact her.
-after a few days or maybe a week you could call her, when she doesnt pick up just leave a message telling her you are going out somewhere with your friends and that she is invited to come. that way your plans are dependent on her, but she can still come if she wants to.

thats the only thing i can think of. im having a similar problem with a girl right now that im trying to figure out how to fix w/o just bailing on the whole thing.

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i dont know why i have these goggles.

The best way to deal with it is to have something else to do. That way it won't be that important to you (which will come across to her).

A girl flaked on me last week, so I said 'that's cool, you can make it up to me on Saturday'. I then called another HB I'm seeing and went out with her instead.

I didn't ring the first HB, she called me on the Saturday to see what I was doing but I was already busy by then because we hadn't actually planned anything. I dropped the fact I went out with someone else into the convo (not in a blatant way) and she was desperate to rearrange.

To be honest, I don't think it was a flake as such, she has a boyfriend so it can be difficult for her to get out overnight and something probably really did change her calender, but either way the strategy (or lack of strategy!) worked...