Ok I have waited a few days and I'm ready to try and contact this HB after she didn't respond to a text I sent a few days ago.

Would it be better to go for the phone call or send another Text?

I would just leave it and go out sarging. I guess you have nothing to lose from giving it another try. I would suggest calling her though but if she flaked the first time chances are she will flake again

definately call, texting would give a impression that you're not brave enough.

Well I texted and never got a response. If I could go back I would of called but oh well live and learn. The thing about it is I already f-closed this HB-9 in a drunken New Orleans night, we had an amazing night, but we both got trashed and did some pretty dirty stuff in the bedroom. I think maybe she just feels really slutty and might think I'm slutty too. Oh well it was good times!

Never text as a first contact, it's a bad way to go about it. Call her.

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gota agree with Rye Lee. call the first time then text afterwards. sounds like she is flaking on u. noone i no doesnt reply to a text unless they got no credit. go out for a sarge and get more numbers. when u call rmind them of something that made u unique, so they remember the whole night and how awsome you are..

if u could f close, why cant u talk on the phone?
i make it a rule to call first because all phones receive calls, when ur talking u can ask her, are u a textual girl? u could have fun with that, but yea call first, should be a law

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Interesting, i thought it was the other way around: that sending an SMS would put less pressure on her and be cooler. Plus DD recommends e-mail as alternative to telephone. Why do you think texting is bad?

i recon texting is bad because of a few reasons, Rye Lee prolly got more

texts are limited therfor u cant remind of the fun she had with u the last time had (rehooking her)
cant show emotions very well in texts (except for and such)
set dates quickly, texts mean she can ask all her friends and it will just take 1 to say no...

thats all mine i can think of now

Texts rock.

You can send it anytime and she can respond anytime. I'm pretty busy so texts rock my world when i don't have time to call or im in environments not conducive to conversation (on a date, at a bar, work, party, etc)

Texts are great b/c they, too, can interact with you (albeit at a limited extent) when they're bored at work/school thinking about the fun you had last night...

I habitually set up dates over texts, and almost all hip girls these days are text demons.

The only caveat is that you must have already built rapport and attraction so you don't need the phone to reinforce it.

Xargon makes a good point, most Hb's I know love to text.. I think it depends on the age of the pray. A 19 year old is going to like texting games, however a older hb say 25 and up would react better to a phone call.