I'm devising a plan to lure the new gorgeous girl from work out with me alone. She's drop dead gorgeous, and we chat at work she's very cool, so I felt very good about going after her. I just happened to google her name and discovered her modeling profile on a site for freelance models. Underwear/Bikini shots of her on her bed.

*no I will not share these with you guys*

and it basically ruined my night. My head is just totally fucked up now. I can't get her off my mind and I totally feel intimidated by her attractiveness. This is terrible because when I speak to her in person, she's not intimidating at all, but until i see her in person again, this intimidating underwear model image stews around in my brain.

So last night I can't sleep. I don't wanna go to bed because I'll probably wank it to her, and I'll feel worse about myself. it's 11pm. I go out to the supermarket to buy some juice and rainbow sherbet. That takes like 10 minutes. Back in my apartment, still don't wanna go to sleep. So i go out to the club 1.5 blocks from my place. I'm going alone. I've never gone out alone before, but I had to do something. I figured maybe if I run some game on a few random girls I might get a number and feel a little more confident.
So there I am, walking down the street in complete awe of myself. I'm actually heading out alone, this is amazing. But the club is frickin' closed. So I have no choice but to go home and sleep. I wish I never googled her name. I wish she wasn't a model. I wish I only knew the girl I met at work.

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-Murdoc

Dude... that is the girl you know at work. When you start to think about her in the pictures, I want you to close your eyes and breath deeply. Then imagine that picture being torn down by yourself like it was on a wall or something and there is nothing but a white room and then imagine yourself just sitting and breathing like you should be doing physically.

I do this when I find myself thinking about my female friends naked. It makes me uncomfortable when that happens and I start to feel the way you do now.

thanks, Waffle. I'll keep trying it.

Now as for my plan to get her to hang out with me:

At work, we're friendly, casual talkers, but we're also busy, so talking is pretty limited. I tease her a bit in a push-pull sense. My roommate suggested something without "date" written all over it. I should ask her if she's got good fashion sense and if so to come help me pick out some summer clothes. Daytime activity on our mutual day off, and maybe grab some lunch afterwards.

I will never mention her modeling pics, or ever googling her name, but I wonder if I should imply to her that I've been with an aspiring model before, the same way it's suggested to pick up a stripper by letting her think you've been with strippers before. A model is a bit different than a stripper, but I think it would be appropriate still. How can I imply such a thing without blatantly lying. I've never dated a model before or anyone as attractive as her.

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-Murdoc

Don't game girls you work with.


Don't get your honey where you get your money.



I can't begin to explain or tell you exactly how many things can go wrong with this scenario and how many horror stories I've heard from guys that tried to game/date girls they work with.

I tend to agree, also because you'll wait for too many IOI's before making your move, ruining any game you may have developed... So not only is your gaming her gonna be below your best but there are consequences too...

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All you need to know is abundance theory... ever...

Note: meeting a pretty girl and then going home and googling her name is an unhealthy activity that will retard your search for inner game.