| This will be my first ever post on these forums, but I've been lurking for some time now. I'm relatively new to the game, but I think I can shed some light on this issue.
Essentially, everyone else saying "they are never too busy" is right.
Regardless of how well you do, there is almost no way you could possibly make her day worse by talking to her. You are a PUA now, you are an interesting, dynamic, unusual guy, girls Want to be with YOU!
Simply put; by approaching her and talking to her, even if she hates you (and she wont, if you have learned anything), you will still have improved her day.
Here's an example; when I first got into the game I ran a bit of an experiment with a friend. He wanted to talk to some girls, but had terrible approach anxiety. My game back then was terrible too, but I'd gotten over my fear of approaching, and I was feeling a bit reckless. I dragged him over to their table and opened them with the worst opener I could think of. I ran terrible game and was generally doing what I could to keep up C&F, but get us blown out of the set as throughly as possible.
It worked pretty well, they ended up hating me, but my friend learned a valuable lesson and has become a lot more confident (Under the the theory that it would never really go that badly, and that in itself wasn't such a big deal). The good thing about it was that even though they didn't like me, I still improved their day. I was probably the most interesting thing to happen to them for months. They gain a cool story and have a better day, my friend kills off some AA, I have a few laughs. Everyone wins.
My point is, no matter how badly you do, there's no way you are going to make things worse for her, as you will be moving past AA. As long as you leave them better than you find them, it's all good.
Good luck.
P.S: Opening with a question about palmistry or tarrot or something books could work pretty well. "Hey, I've only got a minute before I have to meet some friends, but I need a female opinion on this; do you beleive in this stuff?"*Show her book*
Chain onto that with why/why not, possibly lead into The Cube.
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