ok check this out- twice last night at different clubs I approaced different sets of two girls and one guy- all just friends, coworkers, whatever. it was going well, ignoring the target, etc...making friends with the dude, etc. gave them some line about the jealous girlfriend or whatever, negged a little bit. A couple of questions- how do you go about putting a time constraint in there so they don't start wondering how long you will be there? I've found that when the ugly girl wants to go she gets up and tells them all she is leaving, and then the target leaves whether she wants to or not. Whats a better way to isolate after a few minutes of good convo? In one of the sets I got the number close with the target, despite the obstacle yelling at her not to give out her number to some stranger, the other they left, which I probably could have gotten the number- is it better to try to isolate the target or just try to get the number close?
any help or ideas appreciated-been trying to figure this out

Hi Yopon,

About your 3 questions:

1st) If I'm throwing out an opener, I'll say something like "Can I get your advice on something... it'll just take a sec." If I'm already in the set, I'd say, "I better get back to my friends, but let me get your advice on something..."

2nd) The best way to isolate the target I've found, is to have your wing (mine is a female wing) distract the obstacles. We have hand signals. That's why I love my F-wing Double D.

3rd) I personally would never try to number close with friends present. You'll probably get AMOGGed by that loser who's with the girl.


Respectfully,

M