Here's something I realized while teaching some AFCs I met at the mall(seriously the whole thing became a seminar of 12 people listening to me on couches in the mall like I was their new messiah, amazing what a few approachs can do when other dudes see it), there are guys out there who would literally take a bullet for a girl who they've had a crush on for years (who they're "in love" with). Maybe they see this girl at school or church or whatever and that girl might not even know his name.
There are guys out there that think if the flowers and chocolate don't work then you have to bust out the SPAM inside of you (seriously who does superman save except Lois Lane?).
That's not the way dude, you can easily get a girl without having to be mister "I'll take a bullet for you". As a matter of fact girls would probably rather you didn't take a bullet for them, sure you might be their hero, but how long is that going to last? A week , a month. In all honesty that kinda stuff not only happens in the movies, but you'll probably just end up getting LFBJed afterwards. (maybe you won't, why don't you try it out?)
My message here is clear don't give everything you have the illusion that she will fall in love with you for it.
When I was about 14 there was this girl who went out with me for about 2 if not 3 days, I was so convinced that she was the one.
I was totally in love with her, she was the stars that filled up my sky. Then boom she dumps me!
I was like woah this can't be happening, I must have done something wrong! I tried every single dumbass thing to try and get her back, showed her I'd do anything for her (you don't want to know). Save her ferret from a tree (very uncomfortable).
And what does she do? She goes out with my best friend!
So next time you do it think to yourself "Is it worth my self respect?"

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Thanks, im kinda in this situation with the same thing, but this girl is THE ONE. =P

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I agree, don't supplicate.

EDIT: Saintspader

Rules are silly. Why would you make this sort of rule and say never do these things. Fuck it, I'd save her ferret too, but she's gonna have to earn it.

I'm "taking a bullet" for a girl I'm in a relationship with right now, but because of how I do it, it makes her crazy about me. No other guy would do what I'm doing. I'm amazing. I'm some sort of superhero for sure and fuck it turns her on.

She's gotta earn it though. She starts doing stuff that I can't stand and I don't want the relationship anymore, so I'm not gonna do what I'm doing. She knows this and so she values what we have all the more for it.

Spider-man is a much better example than Superman (also way cooler). He saves Mary Jane a lot, but he still saves others and he does it under the context of it being the right thing to do, not because he is her whipping boy. If you do it because it's for her, then you're a chump, but if you do it because it's something you believe in, then YOU ARE A HERO.

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you got me some hell of a good laugh with that ferret

Back to the topic..
have to agree with Rye Lee, good point there man!

I'm with Rye Lee on this one...

While girls might like the asshole, they also like a man who can take care of them and protect them. I'm talking about superman or spiderman or fucking SPAM, I'm talking about a man who is there for them when they have problems. Just because you are nice to a woman, doesn't mean you are going to get placed as a friend. Don't be stupid Jaxin, if you continue to be Mr. Hardass to the women you are meeting the only ones that will stick around are the masochistic ones who like to be treated badly, not the quality women. You're crazy if you think anything different. Women deserve to be treated with respect and love.

I find this to be the biggest problem with most of you PUAS. Overall, the advice being given is similar to this. And honestly, I've always "taken the bullet" for my women, and I've had more than most PUAS will ever have. But as Rye said, they must deserve it. You don't go around giving your respect, time, and energy to any woman with a fat ass and nice tits. That's silly. Mutual respect, nothing more, nothing less.