Might be long for those with ADD.

Last week i was at a bar. The main reason I go is cause the bartender is really hot. I know one of the waitress's through partys and mutual friends. I always say whats up to her and fluff for a moment.

So Im sitting at the bar and flirting and talking with the bartender. Hb8, with an amazing personality. I say whats up to the waitress... Hb5. The bartender hooks me up with a few drinks for free, lots of heavy eye contact and starts to qualify herself. I figured 3 iois. Im on a time constraint cause I have to meet this other girl in like 5 minutes at another bar. She is ringing me off the hook. So this is my interaction with the bartender.

Me: Hb, I gotta go, but you seem like someone I want to get to know better. Whats your number?
Hb: *Shakes head no* I don't give out my number, but you can come by and ill be your bartender any time.
Me: Thats too bad. Im sorry you must have terrible taste in men.
Hb: Well, i just dont think my DJ boyfriend would like that. I mean, hes a good guy, but hes also a really bad guy. (talks shit on him)
Me: Well here is my card with my # when your bored with his shit, call me.
Hb: Ive been in your store! I tried to sell you radio air time...
Me: right on

Anyway... i take off and go meet up with this other girl. About 30 minutes later I get a phone call. I don't answer, but call back when Im not with the girl im seeing. It is the waitress..... she was going to be funny an say she found my card outside on the ground and blah blah blah in front of the bartender. She tells me that the bartender is having a bday party on this past tuesday.

Tuesday rolls around and I call the waitress. She says yeah, there is a party but doesn't know if she is going out. She asks me over to her place to hang out instead. I said, suuuuuuuuure... ill roll on over. Anyway, we are getting drunk and end up back at my place. There was some light kino, and a bit of flirting. We are haning out a bit with my roommate as well. I probably could have got my dick wet, but I am really attracted to the bartender. This is how this conversation goes....

Hb:..... yeah See Kay really HAD a thing for the bartender.
Roommate: What do you mean HAD?!?! LOL

So i think the waitress thought I was kinda feeling her... Her whole attitude kinda changed after that... but we were all kinda drunk and high... so i dunno.

At the end of the night, like 2am, the waitress says "We should hang out and go up to my work on Thursday and have sushi. You can flirt with the bartender."

She volunteered, and I figure if i go up there its social proof. I dont want the waitress to think Im into her, cause I did option fucking her that night. I just thought that would ruin it with the bartender, plus Im not really attracted to her.

So should I use the waitress to get to the bartender? Or just go in as usual and flirt and play with the bartender? I do know she asked the waitress alot about me...... I dunno though.[/b]

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Pre-selection and social proof. This is textbook See Kay.

Don't settle for the girl you aren't attracted to, just play it cool and let her drool over you, which makes the bartender want you more. Don't try giving her your number again though because she is gonna come to you and that's the way it has to happen to get the outcome you want in this situation.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

Thats pretty much what I figured. Im not gonna settle either... not when I can visualize what I want this clearly now. I did think I messed up by dropping my number after she told me no...... but, ehh... ya live you learn. It was kinda DHV cause she kept asking if I owned the store, and inquired more about me. The jelousy plotline probably would be best way to roll.

Thanks Rye.

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success is my only mother fucking option, failure is not.

of course use the waitress

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I know that i should run a jelousy plotline, but for some reason my moral compass thinks it would be wrong... lack of sleep for the past 2 months i think.....

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success is my only mother fucking option, failure is not.

I wouldn't run the jealousy plotline, I would merely use the pre-selection. Two different things, although the first includes the second.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye