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PostPosted: Wed Apr 16, 2008 2:27 am 
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Ok, I go to the gym i see this girl, she gives me IOI by the way she looking at me etc, i never approach her and talk to her because major AA takes over and I cant breath and my hands begin to shake as well as I can hear the AFC in me.

So one day i go to the movies with few friends and I see this girl with like 40 year old guy, they buy the tickets for the same movie as we do. She sees me but I pretend I dont see her.

So I finally manage to approach her at the gym, but the moment I did my conversation died in like 30 sec and didnt know what to say next, she was just reinitiate the convo for like 2 mins and then just walked away, I felt like shit.

in couple weaks I approach her again with solid openers etc. So finally at the end of the convo I asked her for her # and she wouldnt give it to me, she said her boyfriend is right there by the service desk and she said I dont think he would like that. I need to add that during convo she was looking away few times which is IOD. Also the guy that was at the desk wasnt the same guy she was with at the movies.

Im pretty sure she didnt have a boyfriend when i first saw her because she said she just moved from different state and now she does.

She told me she is going to see me around.

What should i tell her next time i see her? Do i still have a chance?

This is my life guys ;(


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PostPosted: Wed Apr 16, 2008 2:39 am 
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Stop attaching so much meaning to the consequences. Adopt an abundance mentality. Everything you do from now on in regards to pickup is PRACTICE and nothing else. Get a shitload of approaches down and get used to the flow of a pickup.

By the way, she probably wanted to give you her number, but just not right then and there. You should have bounced to a different location where the boyfriend couldn't see the two of you then attempted a number-close again. It's called persistence. Read up on Gunwitch Method for more on persistence.


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PostPosted: Wed Apr 16, 2008 2:40 am 
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You approached her twice and she doesn't seem to be interested and possibly blew you off with the "I have got a boyfriend" line. Time to move on...

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