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Guys.
I need your help.
I messed with the game years ago.
But I now use its powers for work,dealing with customers ect.
I'm self employed and a lot of how you come across on jobs helps you get the job.
My girlfriend and I of 13 years started drifting apart.We had a beautiful girl who is two now.
Before we knew it I was texting a woman asking if I could go round to her house and she was emotionaly involved with a guy.
This broke me.I completely lost my shit.
We are now sort of off and sort of on.
Honestly.I can't imagine life with out her.
She is my everything.
I've turned myself inside out coming to terms with what happened.
I need advise.
I'm done with all the talking,begging,crying.
I need to seduce her back into my life.
She doesn't want a broken sad man.
Please.
Any win her back scenarios would be most helpful.
Thankyou.
You said yourself, she doesn't want a broken, sad man..
My step 1 suggestion is to work on that. Work on you. As shit as it is, you're far more likely to pull this off if you've gotten to a stage where you don't need her for happiness.
Fortunately you have a daughter together, which basically permanently anchors you two to each other.. So I'm guessing she's likely going to see your self improvement. Start on the outside. Get a sick haircut that makes you look new and improved. Same as wardrobe. I'd be trying to wipe any image she has of the old you.
TRY to date other women first. It'll only help you. Both in perspective of you and her.
When and if you speak, don't be negative. About anything, ever. No one wants to feel the constant drain of a negative person. Just be fun and happy.