So I had been gaming this girl of and on in class for about a month. Time and money issues meant that I couldn't do much outside sarging considering the bulk of my other time was at work and do don't game people I work with.
So here is the deal, I knew that I had established enough to go for a number close, since before our class she waited around and then after I walked by she went into the room and we talked a couple times after class for about 10 minutes each. She followed the path on the streets I chose and stopped outside her building, which just happened to be on the way, to talk to me.
So thursday I was going to do the notebook tic tac toe thing for the number, but right when I went to do it, the prof changed the slide, writing time for her. Then I decided to look her up on facebook since I already kind of knew her and this went well. After the convo below (which I know exactly where I screwed up I think) I noticed that she unfriended me after sending the invite to begin with.
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2:29pm Apr 10th
You were on that "People You May Know" box. Your in my "elementary school" class, said as a joke, but after School House Rock today it must be true. If I am wrong, oops...
Here's the deal. You seem to have a good sense of fashion (taste for velour track suits excepted), and I got a call today from my best friend in high school Joey that I, being male, cannot answer.
He has been going out with this girl for almost a year, and is freaking out right now, since he doesn't know what to get her for their anniversary. Not like he forgot, he's good like that. He found this really nice sweater at Dillard's yesterday (Malani? maybe, sounds right) and was going to get it for her, since the place she works is like 50 degrees all year.
Well the problem is half her stuff is small and half is medium. He doesn't know which to get her, what would you say?
I shouldn't really make fun of the track suit, if I had one I would wear it everywhere, with big gold chains and a fake russian accent, telling strangers that I "need my money, OR ELSE!!!" (ha!) they would be so confused...but that is me, and I'm awesome like that.
5:10pm Apr 10th
Lol very funny, I am glad that you get enjoyment from making fun of my victoria's secret track suit. It is obvious that you are completely jealous and wish you had one.
Anyway... you obviously get the small, if it doesnt fit then she takes it back. I mean....come on.... you should know this kind of stuff....
9:35am Apr 11th
So what exactly are you implying that I should know this, missy? It better be something good
For the record, I am not "completely jealous", only slightly jealous. I don't have the large gold chains needed, although I like that it is from Victoria's Secret, fits my Russian theme. After all their pink is just a very light communist red right? All they need to do use a K and those crazy upside down L's for T's. And all the people would have the have one of two name tags "Alexandra" or "Veronika" Any dude would be "Stanislav" those are the rules. Unfortunately I could probably fit in a Victoria's Secret track suit...one of the by products of being vegan and having hobbies that involve lots of exercise. Do you have any idea how hard it is to find 29 waist pants in the midwest?
And you should check out the DI today, something I did made the front page. I won't say which story, you'll have to guess based on what you know about me from discussion, I believe you can do it.
Then around 5pm I accepted her friend request and wrote on her wall saying "I didn't notice your request, my bad."
Mistakes:
1. Putting missy in there
2. The winking face
3. Long windedness at the end.
4. Getting facebook in on this at all, but I thought I could game her into going with me to a concert, so I would be totally in my element.
5. Maybe jumping through her hoop
6. Calling her out that she initiated on her wall? Or even writing on it to begin with.
So here are my questions:
1. Apparently I met one of her friends a while back on myspace (see above about time), could this be an issue?
2. Since she wasn't actually in my "People you might know" box, you think that could she have found out?
3. How do I make this the least awkward for lecture/discussion, since we will have to see each other again a lot? And prepare for her mentioning either of the above.
4. Could she just be hiding me from her other friends, since she likes/liked me?
Now on the last one I have an idea:
-Sitting somewhere else in lecture or just not talking to her in lecture/discussion. Then going a different way out of the building so she doesn't have a chance to talk to me.
Would such a big takeaway after her own takeaway signal me being upset or would it work? I mean I would still like to be friendly with her, since she has ridiculous amounts of social proof (executive board of a large sorority), and the social proof from that alone is worth the effort I am expending.
Any and all help would be appreciated, especially from you more experienced.
CHAT
