Hey what's up guys...i pretty much beat my fear of opening people, dudes are more so easier than girls...only b/c it seems that men have more to say from the get go.

I'm good when i'm with other people i know what interests them so i'll bounce around on the topic and incorperate my target into the question...that's fine. Sometimes it feels weird though asking "what do you think?" Does it feel weird b/c that's simply a stupid way to get someone's opinion IF you're trying not to feign interest?

When i open up solo:
I will immediately go into what i KNOW as AFC and bring up school shit...jobs..i DON'T ask what's your major..which i'm proud of as most people bring it out in which case i ask them if it really matters?

I've also concluded at 20 years old that i'm actually a good looking guy and i've been too ignorant to see it, so my self worth has risen and that's in no way bad. So now i can notice the subtle non verbal communication and it's actually start to become 2nd nature which is really cool in a way, in which case i can tell whether they are physically attracted to me or not.(or atleast i'm pretty sure)

I'm also good at so called "deep"/abstract/spiritual/kinda stuff, i mean i don't know if it's good or bad...but it makes my view on small talk seem even more meaningless, so i'm dumbfounded on how to elicit her interests/likes so she'll actually have an opinion. But...it's always said to never show interest until she does..so i'm clueless. How do you bombard them trying to get to know them and still seem uninterested? I'm good with my body language not facing completely towards them and etc..so i think nonverbally i'm "decent". although i catch my self peaking a lot.

So...what the hell do you do?

"Hey do you know if this mall has a spencers?" ....hb: "yeah that way".....

Talk about spencers now? That's an awesome store..looking at the posters is awesome.

I have no idea where to go from something like that.

what you said about ''what you know as AFC'' is incorrect. Once you become good enough at pu things like negs and question openers are uneccessary. Once your frame is strong enough you can open just about anyway you want. i call girls beautiful and cutties all the time which is text book "AFC" but once skilled in the art of pick-up plus your good looking your able to get away with these things with a strong frame.

more towards your question, what you described was a day game situation which is much different from night game. invite them along with you and say i need help finding a new jacket, etc. still be funny about it. mall game is not only fun but really easy if you know what your doing. i find the best way to day game in a mall is to pick-up the girls working in clothing and shoe stores. they are so bored and used to the typical conversation of

Hb worker: you need any help?
guy:nah i'm just looking. or Yah can i get that in a size 10?.

if you go in there crack some jokes and be sociable your almost guaranteed a number close.

Anyways as i said before about your situation take them under your wing for the day and shop with them, but don't go with the intention of actually buying clothes and picking up girls on the side while your doing that. focus on them more then the clothes. When something expensive comes forth don't stress over it, just say you don't like it, Don't make money a big deal. lastly just have fun goof around and try on crazy clothes occasionally etc. you'll be fine.

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yours truly. fitzy

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