Well, it is a way I found that got me out of the LJBF zone..

So, as some of you know, I will write here again after some time travelling and improving my PUA skills.

This strategy is what gave me my second MLTR. I now have a MLTR with Unknown HB7 and Wildfire HB8.

This could as well go in the field report but since it is a pattern more than a one day sarge I will keep it here. I know many many PUAs get into the LJBF zone and I managed to get out of it and I analyzed it to break it down to you guys. Enjoy it!


So, this is recommended for you people who get into a new circle of people, do not use this on your old friends. More like, changing school, city, job, dancing class, whatever... This pattern requires that you have the most important PUA skills... I just assume that most of us do.


1. Identify the leaders of the group, most importantly among her friends. Befriend them. Become the a-male, center the attention on yourself. Amuse, DHV but lead the group! As a PUA you should be able to do this. SMILE!

2. Demonstrate to the group: Preselection, Humor, a-male again.
Force IOI:s by DHV in front of the group (careful, do not seem like you try to pick up).

3. Establish meeting pattern. Tennis on tuesdays, dancing lessons, homework whatever as long as it is non sexual and does not telegraph interest. This gives you the oppurtunity to create an our-world conspiracy including inside jokes... I stress again, do NOT show interest! On purpose, MISS ONE meetng! Keep her off balance, do not let her know where you stand.

4. Demonstrate: Sexuality, Humor again. Run Push-Pull! Is he interested, noooo, but maybe... Nooo... or?

5. Jelousy plotline. Force IOI:s from other HB:s in front of your target, turn them down, shake your head after they have left and make an offhand comment about them to your target. Our world conspiracy. But be sure to look flattered when you get the IOI:s (Not too hard is it?)

6. Build comfort! Deep comfort! Now you can for the first time DHV to her directly and use your favourite routines. Now, important step... Force IOI:s from her, IN FRONT OF her friends! Very important, since you go undercover, the idea of an attraction cannot come from her since she does not officially know about it, and it is lame if it comes from you... Wait and see.

7. Find her values, normally the basic needs: passion, security, protection, spontaneousness?, challenge from your partner, adventure etc.
Find out what her lifestyle is missing right now.

8. On this level, you should have built enough confidence to make her curious about your inner secrets. Give up one secret for now and tell her one weakness in confidence. She will give you one in return... LISTEN to her because what she tells you is something you will need soon! Analyse her secret, think about it.

9. By this time HER FRIENDS should have told her that the saw her IOI:s.
She will deny this to the world but it gives her the idea of you two together.

10. Find one strength that is not obvious. Compliment her on the strength and tell her that you are impressed. Show her that you understand her strength and that you understand that it comes with a price (soulmate moment). If you do it right it is something nobody has ever commented on before.

11. By this time, she will tell you about what her friends said at 9. and she will expect you to react. React by saying: So, what did you tell them? That we are married? You know you will have to give me money to buy you a ring for appearences. (or something witty and non-committing). You are 2 days from a close!

12. Isolate, run LMR material, enjoy.

This was very long but it worked like a charm for me. This could take several weeks but feel free to sarge while you wait, it gives you funny stories and keeps you from being needy.

Love

Phoenix