So I read a couple posts on here, as well as have done this in real life some times, where I give girls "the look". And what I mean by that is, "the look" where she can tell just by they way you look at her that you want to fuck her.

Once or twice, I have done this to throwaway girls, just to see what would happen. Usually girls will avoid my eye contact, but like with a giddy knowing smile. One girl even said "don't look at me like that". Every time I have looked at girls like this it was always just to see what would happen. I never thought giving girls "the look" would tell me so much about their willingness but, lately, I notice a trend in girls that are willing to bang in how they respond to "the look".

Also, I didn't understand that girls also give me "the look" my lack of game did not recognize it. My own lack of game being most of the problem of course, I am quite certain that if I just had a bit of casual spoken game, a lot of these girls could have turned into very fast lays. Within an hour even. I realize this now because this is actually what happened with my most recent successes.



So I am wondering if anyone has any experience with lays just from "the look" because obviously there needs to be more to it than that, even for a girl that is fairly willing. I am going salsa dancing tonight, where I did pick up a chick from "the look" although I didnt take her home that night, but I probably could have. I looked at her, we danced, took a break with a little chat, danced with some others, chatted some more and then I took her home.

I am thinking tonight I am going to try to just give some of these girls the look, make it obvious, judge their reaction, and if they seem open, tell them to save the last dance for me tonight, or something like that. Any suggestions appreciated.

there really isn't much more to it than that.

Intention is everything.

That's how I've hooked up with girls who don't even speak English.

Huh? Really? Interesting. Do you have any tips on how to facilitate the look properly, because I actually often do not look at people period because I notice my eye contact is always too powerful for anyone and makes everyone uncomfortable. Even my boss, I noticed, always used to treat me poorly, until I actually started looking at him in the eye. He has been more of a babbling foolish friend now that I look at him.


As far as most women are concerned, it tends to put them off. Man, this latest girl was an eye opener for me in ways I don't even get yet, I gave her the look and she started pursuing me, which certainly is not common for women. Usually what happens is women will look away all shy and uncomfortable, and then they are in "flight" mode, and I have to chase, which is always the losing game I get stuck in.

How do I "the look" properly?

Read 60 years of challenge .

"The look" is all I ever do. But I find the biggest problem with this. Guys ruin it by talking to a girl because they don't physically escalate and turn the attraction into turbo mode.

Have you seen those bunch of black guys that when girls walk past them, they are all 'damnnn girl...' And they are just checking them out, looking them up and down and looking at them sexually?? Hard to describe by text

supplication social face expression that most people use



here is 'the look' - you could be talking to girls about hamsters but if you are looking at her like this. She is forced to react with attraction or be repulsed. Either way you find the truth if she likes you. Once you get girls that continue you to interact with you whilst you're looking at her like this. It's going really well. You permission to escalate aggressive and physically. FAST sex can happen.

a real example from me. Can you see that she is sucked into my sexual bubble? That's the look

Nobody in a club is doing any of this. I love being that 0.1% that gets it and has no problem risking rejection.

There has been way too many 4 hour interactions where the girl mentions she has a BF - what a waste of time. Now I get laid most nights. It changed my life. Friendly girls are the most dangerous girls to talk to. I would rather get told to fuck off rather than 3 hours of chat to no where

Looking at her like this will get you rejected more, it will also get you laid more. It's filtering for DTF girls. I can talk about this for hours

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The part that Dragula said about hamsters, that should be some kind of sticky thread. It's like playing a game with a cheat code - most guys frantically race through their minds trying to think of ways to hint at sex, but this will 99% of the time make the girl bring it up first... cause the look alone will create the kind of vibe that she gets from guys she fucks, and not from friends or family. It genuinely quite often makes girls think they gamed you, when you do it right. When you really start to know your shit, you can throw in some other things like giving her some last minute resistance just to get her that little bit more horny (if she's the one trying to persuade you, then she's not going to change her mind at the last minute lol) but that's a whole other topic.

Basically, give girls "the look" while talking to them. Don't just give "the look" and expect her titties to pop out and fly to your mouth.

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Sometimes When I'm winging my friend I turn it off because I know could ruin the entire set because i know i have to risk creepy to find out if she likes me so I tend to play a bit of slow game in these situarions for my wing's benefit really.

But when I open. I make it a general rule of thumb that she should be telling me she has a boyfriend with in the 1st 10 seconds of interacting with her or...she is making out with me... "Blow me or blow me out" type of thinking

My friends think I'm crazy because Im actually more comfortable physically escalating in the 1st seconds of opening than having a conversation with a woman. They think I'm autistic with it. I just did my thing regardless and I now have mentored a new friend who suddenly copies my stuff and is now suddenly getting laid more than my other friends.

Now he jut obsessed with it all. Keeping me on my toes

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- The look.

Eye contact is definitely important. We often hear the cliche that the eyes are the window to the soul. And yes proper eye contact can technically be your opener, but as you've already stated, more has to be done. Contact has to be made, an approach has to be made, and some form of escalation has to be made whether verbal, physical, or purely intention based.

Why save the last dance? Why not just go for the close? You're going to get what you ask for in life. If all you want is the last dance, thats all you'll get. If you want more, you'll get that.

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Dude, I cant hold all the gold in this thread at once. Thank you guys.


I have a job where I get to meet hundreds of customers a day, and I have been giving all the ladies "the look". I must say, the results are astounding. Usually within 10 seconds I can see a girl recognizing what kind of look I am giving her. A good 50% are too unattractive for me to The Look. Another 10% don't recognize. A good 10% recognize, and most of the time respond well, whether by self grooming, fluttering eyelashes (that was so amazing for me to recognize) or something else.


Heres the thing; a good 30% (60% of all girls Im interested in) look down and/or away in shyness. They become fidgety, nervous. I cant tell if its because they are just too shy, or if my The Look is unwanted. Can anyone tell me some proper steps /good ideas to move ahead with this scenario?






Nah nah nah see, its not just the last dance, its "the last dance" with The Look. Its hard to get the context just in a post I guess. THIS last dance takes place on my bed.

A girl reacting like this means that she can't deal with the tension and that you sound break the ice ASAP "hi I'm chapelle, you look rather shy"

Perhaps don't get too touchy and work your way into it

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I feel like I really should bump this thread.

If there was anything that has ever worked best for me, anything that opened a magic door, any "magic bullet", this thread was it. What Dragula has said here is in fact pure gold, and I also think it should be stickied as Daniels said.

This has worked so well for me, I even realized I was not ready for it to work so simply. I keep believing there needs to be so much more to picking a girl up, there's not. Just an introduction, the look, some proper kino escalation, and some basic chat.


And I know this because I just did it again at salsa dancing. I invited this new girl to dance. I gave her the look all while dancing. I broke with her a bit to dance with someone else. I invited her to dance for a different song, giving her the look, and seeing her recognize, she came with me. The second dance, I did some moves with some obvious kino, now that she was more comfortable with me; I held her butt to my crotch with a well executed move. I faced her forward and held her hands behind her head, exposing her torso to me. And just held her there, giving her the look. Finally I brought her body in close to mine. The dance we were doing called bachata allows for moves performed with my leg right between hers as her chest is held against mine. She was giving herself willingly to me. I ground her pussy into my leg. The song ended. I gave her the look. She gave me the look. I said it was stuffy in here, let's step outside for some fresh air. She agreed. With a bit more looking and chatting we made it to my car and the rest is history.


I still feel a bit fumbly on the chatting part, but I think when a girl is feeling ready to get fucked, it doesnt matter so much what you say. As Dragula said, if the look is working, you have already filtered for a chick that is DTF, and any excuse to go somewhere with you will work because you both already know what is going on. All that matters is the vibe, the understanding, and the logistics. All the rest of game, I think, is for trying to get women who are not DTF that night. Perhaps worthwhile if you are into chasing specific women, but futile for finding the fast lays. I am glad I found this. I think this is what I have been looking for all along. The biggest problem I had, was the courage to look a woman straight in the eye and think, as if I could say for her to hear me, "I wanna fuck you." The responding look in their eyes says "ok".

Boom! Congrats! - that is exactly how shit goes down for me every night I go out. Probably a big reason I am not that into day game because it is x10 more difficult to get physical but not impossible. I have made it work.

Read 60 years of challenge already. Even if you have already, reading again it now will just clarify everything for you since you now have reference.

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