Been seeing this girl for about 4 months now. been on lots dates, shes been round to mine a few times we have slept together and everything has been going great, shes even told a few of her friends and her mum about us.

she went on holiday last week and prior to that was unable to see me (work) and text me saying how she was sad and missed me and cant wait to see me and have "cuddles". throught her holiday she was very responsive to my texts, we dont normaly text alot when shes at home working, altough she did that week on holiday, maybe as she had more time?

anyway when she got back I asked her what her weekend plans were, she sent a very detailed message about being busy and seeing family. I text back the next morning saying cool and asked her if she had any plans the following weekend, we should go out.

4 days have passed and she hasnt replied. I'm not sure whats going on? I havent changed my behaviour towards her or said anything wrong. maybe I came accross as needy asking to make plans twice? shes never been the fastest at responding and a couple of days is normal, but this feels diffrent. Why has she gone from hot to cold for no reason? Im thinking of just cutting contact and if shes intrested she will come to me? anyone have any good advice on the situation? I do no shes is extremly busy with work and social events.

Fella: This is the third time you've created this thread... And you were warned on the second one.

STOP.

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