The situation is that I was gaming this HB for a while who had a boyfriend. The other day she called me and told that she is really attracted to me but doesn't know what she wants to do. Either stay with him, or get with me. How can I swing this in my favor?

Thanks guys,

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That sounds like a shit test to me. Dont take my word for it though, I'm just getting started with all this! lol

Rapture,
This is a shit test of sorts. She obviously wants you, but just wants to be sure all those things that you have done to make her attracted are not artificial, and that if she leaves her boyfriend she is not doing it for an AFC is disguise. I would say keep hitting those attraction switches like you have been, don't push for her to make a decision, don't become too eager now that you think you got this won, and don't talk badly about her boyfriend because it will lower your value. You have to change her mood through her emotions rather than changing her mind with logic.

if it were me, i would probably reverse her. tell her , hey if he's your type keep with him. he sounds like a cool guy. and disqaulify yourself. do a search in the forum for my post "Ultimate Disqualifier List".

If she ever mentions you 2 together say stuff like "yea but thatll never happen." then some lame disqaualifier "im too high maintenance for you" "you need a guy you can walk all over" "you're trouble! i shouldnt be talking to you" ive done all of these and they work perfectly if you have the right frame.

if she starts talking about the cons of being with him, then you have to almost stick up for him. its a bfdestroyer method. imply that youre sticking up for him and on his side, but really, let your words and delivery make him sound like a bad choice. theres one really good post on Bfdestroy tactics in the forum, i have used it and it worked well.