Ok so my plans in life are to spend the next 4 years training hard for BUDs (basic underwater demolition for the Navy SEALs) and i feel pretty confident that i can do it. So looking to settle down and get married isn't in my plans AT ALL...and even if i wasn't going to BUDs i don't feel i would want to settle down too early

but here's the thing, i don't really want to ever settle down, really i just want children that i have custody of. Me and women really don't get along long term (mainly because every GIRLFRIEND i've had has cheated on me) And i know thats very weird especially in a society where marriage and raising a family is a big deal. Plus i love this PUA life, being able to get almost any girl you want. I want to travel the world and try to pick up girls of every culture before I die. Alot of my friends want to settle down because they feel old (we're only 21-22) and they make a habit of saying im wrong and they're right.

So my reasons might be stupid and IDC but i just wanted to ask

When will the PUA lifestyle of picking up random girls stop for you? Are you ever going to get married/remarried. Do you think it's possible to be happy without being married once you get older?

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"My understanding of women only goes as far as the pleasure. When it comes to the pain I'm like any other bloke - I don't want to know."-Alfie

hi, i think the PUA lifestyle will stop for me when i met a girl that mark my life, that girl that have everything i want and make me feels that i dont need any other girl or... if i pregnang a girl hahah, if that happen i never stop my PUA life, couz i will teach my son, but if is a girl i will stop.
and man off course its possible to be happy with out being married, when you found something thats make you happy, doesnt matter if you are alone or with some one, the real question you need to ask to you is "how i see my life in 25 years?, want to have a family for celebrate xmas, travel, or how you see you, and how you want to see you.

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be the rule exception... get the girl

Generally speaking, you'd be well advised to wife up before you hit 50.
I've seen plenty of guys do pretty well into their 40s, but around 50, their success with women starts falling off a cliff. They've gotten entirely too old to date younger women, some guys who are 45 can look to be in their 30s. It's not how old you are, but how old you look.

However, when you clear 50, %95+ of men start rapidly looking their age. It also comes with pretty severe drops in testosterone. At which point, you not only look older, but have lower drive to get out there and try.

I've known guys in their 40s, dating women in their early 20s. But 50+? At best, mid-30s. In most cases, the age of women you have to start dating, begins to rise at about 2-3x the rate you're aging(IE 48=26, 49=28, 50=31 51=33 52=36 53=39). You really do not want to date women who are 40+ from what I've seen.

There are plenty of good, single women in their 30s. Either because they didn't want to get married, were very career focused, or had one lame husband from a young age and haven't been single for long.
Single women over 40, do not look good, by and large and most are emotionally and mentally damaged when it comes to relationships.

So my plan is, have fun until my 40s, then pick a suitable younger woman for a wife, and start a family. Guaranteed success? No, there are no sure things in life. But looking at what I've seen, I don't like my prospects as a single man over 50.

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RSDTyler

It never stops, its in your blood

those are my exact plans also, really i was looking to get married along the lines of 35-40 if i did get married

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"My understanding of women only goes as far as the pleasure. When it comes to the pain I'm like any other bloke - I don't want to know."-Alfie

it will never stop and people can be happy with it. but you'll never be happy because it's impossible for a baby killer to be happy. make love not war.

Baby Killer? ok lol but no if you mean the SEALs it's more about saving hostages, and protecting my country than killing the "enemy" just because.

but back to the topic

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"My understanding of women only goes as far as the pleasure. When it comes to the pain I'm like any other bloke - I don't want to know."-Alfie

A) props to you for accepting the challenge of being one of America's elite.
B) When you make it through BUDs take a second and enjoy your life. Enjoy the newfound brotherhood you'll experience. Go through a deployment before you consider having kids. Right now I think the divorce rate for operators is 90%. It takes a dedicated women to marry a SEAL.

I too am pursuing a career in special operations, and it's really not conducive to raising children. No judge is ever going to give you custody of children when you are literally going to have to packup and head to a country most of the US has never heard of with 5 minutes notice. I haven't talked to alot of SEALs, but I have talked to a few rangers and a few group guys. What I gather from them is that until you leave that life it is your life.

For right now live the PUA life. Experience the best and worst parts of it. When you're a SEAL focus on being a SEAL. Once you're done, then you can worry about your other ambitions of life.

I'll leave you with a quote from a SGT. from 1st Ranger Batt. "Whether you make it or you don't, either way you sacrifice you life."

Good luck. And remember that the only easy day was yesterday.

PUA's on here should also realize that it pays to be a winner

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"My understanding of women only goes as far as the pleasure. When it comes to the pain I'm like any other bloke - I don't want to know."-Alfie

The only thing elite about that is elite of being capable of killing and injuring other human being. It clearly shows a deep lack of values. Props for that.
In fact I just love to steal girls from warmongering military guys much bigger than me. While they are busy killing innocents I'm fucking their wife and gfs. I just love it.
And "sacrifice you life" wtf is that? that's so retard. You don't have to sacrifice nothing.

Come on man... That was uncalled for. You won't tell the dude that to his face nor do you tell people in the army Marines or seals they're baby killers in public.

He said he's planning on getting married in about 15 years. I'm not incredibly knowledgeable about the SEALS(my family is mostly Marine Corp), but you don't usually have a lot of 35+ special ops.

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RSDTyler

Just wondering where are you from?

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"My understanding of women only goes as far as the pleasure. When it comes to the pain I'm like any other bloke - I don't want to know."-Alfie

I believe he's from Candy Mountain.
He reminds me of the pink unicorn.

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RSDTyler

You can 'live the life' your whole life if you want to. I know guys in their 70s and 80s who constantly meet and date younger (20s) women. And it doesn't have to do with money or status, but rather their ATTITUDE and what they expect. Their worldview thinks of it as normal, so the girls naturally accept that worldview.