I live in a major southern US city so on paper there is supposed to be a pretty even pool of females to males.

Why does it seem though that for every decent looking girl HB 6 or greaterthere is like 4 dudes going after them. A lot of my good friends are female. My bff is a 7.5 and is always rejecting seemingly good looking nice guys. Today at the mall I was observing and there seemed to be a lot of not to be gay, "cute" guys with not as attractive and/or fat chicks.

I've really started to wander if in my town there is a glut of good looking suitable males to attractive females. Anyone else had any thoughts?

A very very small percentage of men know how to lead things with multiple women consistently, from start to finish.

If you have some of the knowledge that is to be gleaned from places like this forum, you are in a big advantage.

A woman may have orbiters or AFCs in her life, but it's that very rare guy who is regularly successful with women who locks in to her with eye contact and subcommunicates sexual intent that gets her wet and wanting more. Many women never experience a guy like this despite yearning for him. That's why when they meet one they generally do what they can to be in his life even for a little while. They want some of what he's got.

A lot of the world is a facade. Go to any trendy section in any major city on some Friday night and you'll see the bars, restaurants and streets absolutely crawling with couples. It is readily apparent that many of them are on their first dates. Most of these guys will go in for the kiss at the very end of the date and both the girl and guy will go home to their own beds. Or the girl will have received a free meal and she will then go meet up with her playboy lover on his terms.