We've all been there: being at a club, seeing the most perfect 10 of that particular night, but she's talking to somebody else.

As we're all alpha as phkuc, we'd like to drag her to our place nevertheless.

Any tips/suggestions on how to handle this situation?

Cheers guys

watch the situation between the girl and the guy.wait for an awkward situation and go and casually open.
throw him off guard with a new threat (you) to his potential girl.

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"Life is a chance,take all the ones you get".

This is stupid advice.

First off OP, don't come from a frame of mind of "trying to seduce the girl" come from the friendly and cool vibe, then fun-loving dude that's just talking to everyone, and engage both of them.

However, you gotta come from a higher reality than the one they're having, your frame has to be stronger than their, so that they get absorbed into it. However, that's the thing, don't "worm" yourself into the interaction like some value-taking leech. Come from a value-giving frame of mind, and just have fun.

Last bit, don't expect to succeed, because it's possible you won't. Let go of the ego of wanting to be a mPUA, and just have fun, simple as that.

If you get blown out, then it's they're loss, you're just having fun and sharing it with other people.

Also, girls come to bars and clubs to have fun mainly, if she's "talking" to some dude in the middle of the venue (eg, not isolated), chances are she's not hooked yet, so DO that, by providing FUN.

However, the fun has to come from within, don't be the clown and try to impress her. Self-amuse, and spread that.

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"Be the change you wanna see in the world" -Gandhi

Exactly ! Do this you want to be the guy that has both of there attention and winning them both over once you do that hes basically giving her to you.

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Just adding onto it:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ylYGcVjsJGk

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couple of options:

1. wait until they are finished, in case the guy is just another AFC trying to hit on the girl

2. open the guy instead of the girl. "your girlfriend is hot. lucky bastard! here's a toast to you!"

3. open the set with both of them. "you look like a cute couple. how do u know each other?"

4. open the girl. "hey! you look like you're fun. who's your friend?"

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Point 1 - you wait and hes not an AFC and steals the chick and leaves with her ?

point 2 - Is the route i would take personally

point 3 - If i was to open them as a set i would focus on the guy just like you wouldnt focus on your target and give her all the attention.

point 4 - If i was to open souly her i would look for the save me eyes that girls do to there GF's on the dancefloor when a creep is trying to grind on them. (everyone must know those eyes)

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I would opt for a watered down version of #2 if the girl was in listening range. But if she wasn't, he may say 'thanks' if he was a non-bf AFC orbiter. Otherwise I'd go with a variation of #3, ensuring they both heard me, leaving out the 'how do u know eachother' because if the girl is interested in you and they aren't a couple you can be sure she will say "oh he's not my bf!" (to the embarrassed look of the guy unless the guy is not an AFC and/or doesn't give a fuck).

You could maybe just ask her how they know each other.....

When she doesnt know you or he doesnt know you ?

you; Hey, how do you guys no each other?

I know if an AFC approached me with that BS when im talking to a girl i would shoot him down in seconds lol

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That's why body language and tone are so important

Yeah it's already been said, just go in as a chill, cool guy without any motives.

Like seriously, go in without any motives except to be friendly and see what's up.

After a minute or two or conversation you should be able to tell what the dynamics of their relationship are.

You're not gonna want to go barging into the set licking your lips, thinking "Oh boy, I'm gonna seduce the fuck outta this chik."

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Jesus...

Listen mate, when faced with something you want, there are two options; fight or flight. You can either go home with your tail between your legs, or show up. Those are the only two options. Now what I'm concerned with is how you show up.

You can wait it out til he's done, like a hyena waiting for the scraps. You can go in friendly and repress your desires like an emasculated child, or you can show up like a man.

I'm not advocating bursting in and stealing girls off guys for fun. That's a dick move and just because you can doesn't mean you should. But if you see someone you really like and the circumstances are less than ideal, make it a habit to show up as a man. A simple "Pardon me, but I had to tell you you look absolutely incredible and I had to interrupt. Is this your girlfriend? No? Hi, I'm ****". If it is, simply shake his hand and leave. No woman can be mad at someone who just likes her, and believe me that as a man, it's flattering.

Stop thinking in terms of PUA crap. You are not out to conquer and AMOG and Neg and whatever else. Aim to be a man.

Love
Mack

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