So I've been around 2 or 3 guys now that have went from getting no pussy to getting a decent amount and everyone of them has went through a very similar process with their egos that I thought was interesting (I went through the same or a similar process as well)

There's nothing super magical about what I'm about to share but I found it interesting.

So with the newbies up into the intermediate level, most of these guys have little to no ego because they're losers and they know it (We've all been there) Some of them feign ego but it's incredibly obvious they don't get pussy and when the going gets tough they can't keep the ego up and usually crumble around sexual or tense situations

Then you have the intermediate up through the really advanced guys. This probably makes up the biggest section both in the community and in society.

What happens with this section is a guy will start to get laid and then start to get an ego on him surrounding his success. The ego is usually as big as his success. So those insecure douche bag guys in the club that have big egos usually are getting laid a pretty decent amount. And the average guy who will argue that he gets laid but isn't willing to get in a serious confrontation over it, is usually getting laid but not a whole shitload from what I've seen.

And then there is the top 1% and these guys come full circle.

These are the guys that revert back to being egoless, except the difference between them and the newbie is their lack of ego is coming from a place of confidence and experience not from a place of lacking and insecurity.

These guys are the ones that know they can laid any given week and they know pussy really isn't that big of a deal. It certainly isn't worth having a thick ego over that gets in the way of all sorts of things.

These guys are the ones that transcend the need for pussy and its validation and as a result, begin having it thrown at them.

These are those super friendly, chill guys that are always in a good mood and everyone loves being around them.

They are infectious and magnetic to people because there's so much extra self-esteem to go around that when you can go out with a guy like this or even hang around him, you're guaranteed to have a good time. I've only known a few of these kinds of guys in my life and literally everyone wants their attention, and for good reason.

This whole process and reaching the top really is paradoxical because to become a guy like that you have to make pussy a priority in your life (at least for some time) and when you do that, getting pussy is going to create the validation you're admittedly seeking by making it a priority in your life and then the ego surrounding the validation comes in with success.

It's impossible to avoid the ego and most people (especially "normal" people who don't study this stuff) never transcend the need for validation because the validation feels so good. That's why there are so few people with actual core confidence out there in the world.

It really is a hard place to get to (I'm certainly not there yet, I have seen glimpses) and should be the level and goal everyone is striving for.

Gathering experiences and being present to them will be your teacher.

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^ Good post.
The ego is a false shell and it is a must to come out of it.
This is the calm, core confidence that radiates from someone who is TRULY CONFIDENT in themselves and life.