I took home a HB9 table waitress from a club last Friday. F closed.

She's really into fitness and it's been a few days, so I texted her from the gym and made some comment about a trainer we both know. She responded right away and she said I should invite her to the gym this week.

I said instead, why don't we go out this weekend for drinks and clubbing. She sounded excited and said yes but said she was supposed to work on Friday so she'd have to get out of it. She asked if we could just go to her club and buy a bottle there so that she'd keep her boss happy about getting someone to fill in for her. I said ok and she texted the club to give away her table to another girl. The more I thought about it afterward, it started to piss me off and make me mistrust her.

Anyway, I'm on the verge of texting her and telling her I changed my mind and I don't want to go out to her club on Friday. She's pretty freaking hot though and I'm 50/50 she'll be pissed because she texted work to give away her table.

Everything about alpha makes me think her looks shouldn't matter and I should just be clear that I don't buy a bottle unless I feel like it at the moment. I also don't want to be a dick since she gave away her shift.

Thoughts?

You already agreed, so do it, and be happy about it. While there talk about where she is taking you on your next date. There is nothing beta about pleasing a girl you like. It's not like the first thing she did was make you buy her shit just to talk to her. Remember, she would have been happy just to go to the gym. Over pay, your mistake, and be nice and enjoy this cool girl. IMHO

I Agree with mastermind dont cut off your nose to spite your face. Shes asked you to go to her club so she doesnt get grief from work which tbh is a smart decision. I know girls who would just flake on you etc so be happy enjoy her company and take her back to yours for another fuck session.

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Agreed, good advice. Thanks guys!