I'm not interested in hook-up culture. I'm not looking for a long-term girlfriend either. I'm somewhere in the middle, where I want a friend AND a fuckbuddy. I mean, it's summertime, why not?

However in my town I feel like the dating culture works AGAINST this mode of operating. All the attractive women cling onto their lame-o boyfriends for way too long, are shy and pruddish, or are indiscriminate and indifferent to who they bed. The rest are downright boring.

Sometimes I get sad and frustrated about this. I thought I'd post up this thread to see what you all might have to say on the subject.

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The ultimate lesson of psychoanalysis is that human life is never "just life": we are possessed by the strange drive to enjoy life in excess, attached to a surplus which derails the ordinary run of things.
-Slavoj Zizek

Friends with benefits are my specialty!

Even if a woman has never had any experience like this before, it is very possible to turn them into FWBs.

First of all, you gotta know what you're doing with seduction in general. That's a given.

Second, you have to manage expectations properly: http://chiefpua.com/managing-expectatio ... ationship/

Through your seduction, though, you also have to:
1. shape her to be more open to trying new things
2. have solid views and a solid belief system on the matter of FWB relationships
3. both communicate and subcommunicate said views and beliefs

There's probably more to it if I think about it more. I'll write up a comprehensive report on it eventually.

why dont you try and proof to be more of a man than there "lamo boyfriends" by demonstrating interest.
i can picture the guy in my head,a really soft boring guy who talks about working with children in foriegn countries or doing some good.is that they type of guy,a real buzz kill?

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