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- the interaction + close has to make sense (why would she want to meet up again?)
- demonstrate you're not a random creep to build comfort (commonalities? mutual friends?)
- be cool about it - treat them as if you've known them for a while.
- showing sincere interest in the chick (i like to be observational).
- take the interaction further than a n-close if it calls for it.
- sometimes a n-close can be a means to an end. ex: might make the chick feel less slutty w/ a SNL.
How about you don't ask her number...
When I move to comfort stage, I have a compliance test which I give to the girls.
-Hey! Let me see your purse! Open it! (Correct her) Hey, do it slowly and with style! Like you are in a James Bond movie. Get your cell phone. (Shout) HEY! I did't tell you to close the purse! WOMAN, obey!
(at this point they start creating a new contact; tease her that you are not that easy, etc)
(You can also run Julien's "(123)-456-7889" routine; I usually give them some wrong digits and have them backspace)
-Good girl
KEY POINT: Do this move in a very CASUAL way and then CONTINUE with more comfort building.
What do you achieve or learn throughout this test? (namely)
1. Compliance
2. You set a frame where you are the prize
3. You avoid the stereotypical dead end of the interaction which normally awaits all the AFCs who play for the phone number.
4. You give her the excuse to stay with you and not to "escape"
5. You make her chase you - if she is really into you, she will either call you immediately to check whether you gave her the right number or , as soon as you leave, text you.
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Once you are done with the test CONTINUE with more comfort building! It took me a while to understand the meaning of this detail. In fact, it's NOT a detail! It's a step of vital importance for moving on to day2 or to seduction stage!
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