Gentlemen, thanks for the help. I am looking for tips on my mid game. I went on a date with a legitament 9/10. Three venue shifts, she stayed at my place, you can imagine the rest. The problem is this has happened before: I develop oneitis, become unconfident and worry when I try multiple dates with a 10. (She is taller than me etc) . Any tips on how I can pursue the second date (i actually liked this girl very well) without developing those needy qualities. Mechanics----how much do I let her chase me, how much do I text/pursue.

Why does everyone described girls as numbers? It objectifies them, and these points are based solely on their appearance. I would guess you can't see her for the person she is, but become blinded by her beauty, which would be a very likely reason why you develop oneitis - because you can't see the flaws in her personality. My advice is that you pick her down from the piedestal. She is just a person, like everyone else. There's nothing special about her.

I honestly know exactly how you feel, my first post here was basically the same as yours. The advice I have been given here is to have options, don't work solely on one girl, have multiple girls you can game at the same time whilst meeting more from day/night game. Now i dont even care if for example one girl doesn't text back, I'll just speak to someone else, usually the girls ends up texting anyway as you don't seem needy. Neediness has been my biggest problem in the past simply because I didn't give myself any other options. I always used to be a nightgame kind of guy, have a few drinks, pick up girls in clubs but now I much prefer day game, it builds confidence and it's a lot of fun!

From my limited experience I would just simply text/call to set up another date and keep small talk to a minimum in between dates at this point. Maybe shoot her a text the day before you meet up.