Alright guys, today I want to cover something I recently discovered was actually the science of why I'm good or better at text game than just about anybody here.

This is not a brag report or a look at how awesome I am thing. It has nothing to do with me. It's more about my method.

I recently helped a user named Hdhala while in the chat room. For those of you who come here I recommend logging in there as well. You can get multiple perspectives and literally have a discussion about how to handle your situation or others.

Back to Hd, he was inquiring about the what to say and why I say things as I do. He asked how I came to the conclusions I had.

I gave him advice on the middle of a text conversation he was having. He typed everything I sent him verbatim. His replies were positive but, he didn't understand why it was working. I thought in my time it just works because of trial and error. I basically accidentally discovered a very effective way to receive the outcomes I wanted.

There has to be a better explanation and I couldn't tell Hd that through trial and error I just know what works. I had absolutely no trial and error with the girl he was texting. That answer just wouldn't suffice.

Hd asked what's the most important thing you think of to give a good reply with texting. I answered frame control. I always try to control the frame. If I can do that, it gets very easy to do. I do this now basically on auto pilot. I figure out the current frame of the conversation, shift that frame to whatever benefits me best, and just let the science of it all play out.

So what exactly is frame control. You can't control it unless you know exactly what it is.

With texting I thought it was just the what you say and the what it means. The third layer is the frame control.

For example...

What I said.
Hey bratface, on a scale of 10 to 10 how hot is your ass?

What I meant.
I think your ass is a perfect 10

What the frame is.
I'm a guy who will tease you with nicknames and flirt by asking silly sexual questions.

That 3rd layer of frame control gives me the upper hand because I basically painted her into a corner of my reality.

To truly understand what exactly frame control is and understand it even if you think you know what it is I found a great post on the subject.

I think Jon Sinn wrote a lovely piece about this and you should read this before continuing forward.

htt. p. : / / sinnsofattraction. Blogspot. com/ 2007/ 02/frame-control.html?m=1

Type in that minus the spaces...


Now that you know basically what you are trying to control let's look at some actual examples from a lay report I wrote. Many of these looked ridiculous on paper but, my frame was always stronger thus absorbing the weaker frame into my reality.

I should make a side note here. SLIPKNOT was my old username. I got banned here once a while back but, came in with a new user name. That name is now retired but, for clarity the SK in these text messages is me. The A is a babe named Amanda. In between these messages is what the current frame of the conversation is.

For example. I say something. What the frame is. Than she replies. New frame etc. The important thing isn't necessarily what you say but, how well you control the frame.

SK-hey Amanda, it's SLIPKNOT. I love your hair today.

Frame-Putting myself on her map so she knows I exist.

A-are you the guy from the gas station?

Frame-A stranger is texting me and knows my name. Maybe it's the only dude I gave my # to a week ago.

SK-yes, you have an awesome ass btw.

Frame-I'm that guy, and I'm not afraid to hit on you right away.

A-I thought you forgot about me.

Frame-I thought you'd never call, every guy wants to fuck me.

SK-you don't know me so don't be alarmed if I send you inappropriate texts.

Frame-You've been warned, I'm a bad boy.

A-I don't get offended by stuff. Just say whatever.

Frame-Sounds like I found a fun guy, wonder what he'll say next.

Side note, I'm done labeling frames. I think you get it by now.

Our next conversation actually happened 2 or 3 days later in early evening...

SK-I'm good at backrubs but, I'm good at other things too.

I know how to please a woman in bed, I have other skills.

A-are you sexting me?

Is he already trying to sext me?

SK-no, if you're turned on that's my fault. Sorry babe.

I wasn't sexting you but, just called you my babe.

A-I am. I have never been this turned on in my life.

I'm fucking horny.

SK-I can't tell if you're serious or being sarcastic. If you are than prove it.

I'm giving you a shit test, it goes both ways girl.

A-of course I'm horny.

I'm getting more turned on.

A-I'm divorced with no bf.

Isn't it obvious?

A-I'm sick of porn too. It's just not as good.

I'd rather have your dick than my vibrator.

SK-should I go shopping tomorrow? I don't have condoms.

I plan on fucking you, just not prepared for it right now.

A-wtf? Who said anything about tomorrow? You better get those Magnums tonight.

He can go to the store tonight. That's where I met him ffs.

SK-are you giving me a booty call?

Are you actually this horny?

A-I'm really wet. I just want to get fucked hard.

I'll let him know how I feel. Is he like every other guy?

SK-I won't have sex with you tonight. If you want me to come over though, I'll lick your pussy until you cum.

Not in the mood to bang but, want to eat your box!

A-alright you win. I have no idea how to respond to that.

I fold. You clearly just blew me away. I'm touching myself.

SK-I won't judge you for being sexual, it's natural. The correct response is "yes, you can remind my why being single isn't awful, by holding my ass and licking me until I explode."

I won't think you're a slut if you invite me over. We both want this.

A-well Jesus Christ, maybe I should buy you dinner first sometime.

If I invited you over, I'd still feel like a slut if we didn't at least have a meal first.


Don't remember exactly when this one took place because we texted on and off before actually seeing each other again. We had a lot of sexual chats peppered in with normal stuff where I dodged and played mind games.

SK-you are gonna love my couch.

My new couch is perfect for sex

A-why do think that?

What's so great that I'll love about it?

SK-because I got a brand new one that came with a pussy licking guaranteed or your $ back warranty.

The first time you come over, I'm making your pussy into an all you can eat buffet.

A-dude, WTF?

Is he crazy?

A-you are so inappropriate.

He warned me he would send inappropriate messages. That qualifies.

A-I love the way you text me.

Keep making me out to be a slut. I've been married for 5 years and want your dick.

SK-it gets better babe. I'm gonna suck on your neck. (blowing hot air into your ear) Then I'm gonna kiss your pussy with your panties on until you are dripping wet.

I wasn't kidding about my other skills babe.

A-I'm not into that.(sarcasm, I could tell)

Shit test.

SK-then we can interlock fingers and you can squeeze my hand when I do something you want me to continue doing until completion.

You won't regret sitting on my couch naked. Not bragging, that's a fact.

(23 minutes later)
A-I just had 13 orgasms in a row.

I've been rubbing my pussy thinking of you. You satisfy me more than any guy I've ever met.

SK-you can't count that high but, you still owe me a blow job.

I know you got your rocks off. Suck my dick soon.

As most people in the chat and others know I'm actually an alcoholic. This basically means I drink into blackouts and can't quit drinking even when I have responsibilities. It's been a huge problem that has affected, woman, jobs, money, jail, detox, rehab, and a couple trips to the ER etc. I'm still successful in life so I'm a "functioning one" but, I still have battles I wouldn't wish upon almost anyone. That being said, drunk people are known to do dumb things. This text exchange was about one week before we hooked up. I literally almost blew it with a pretty hot blonde, knowing sex would definitely happen as long as I didn't get into my own selfish way. She is usually not an obstacle, I am.

SK-8:00 a.m.-raise your hand if you went to work smashed off your ass today. I just threw up and now I'm too drunk to walk straight. Smooches to your amazing ass XOXOXOXOXOXOXIXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXO

I'm so drunk your ass is worth the extra XOs. Warning I'm a fucking drunk fucker.

A-are you retarded?

I thought this guy was sexy, WTF. Idiot.

SK-10:45a.m.-OMG, it's starting to wear off now. Only a few people noticed. I feel like complete shit.

I am recovering but, it's been a terrible day. Where's the sympathy bitch?

Now when I made it home sober I realized that the one text could destroy this. Fuck that. You're Meehan, you can recover. She already invited you over for sex. It can still happen. Just let her know shit hit the fan without telling her everything. She'll understand.

I followed up with this exchange 2 days later after not hearing from her at all...

SK-babe, don't judge me from the other day. That was an accident.

I said I wouldn't judge you for being a slut, return the favor and we are even

(immediately more info)
SK-I work very early in the morning and didn't sleep off a buzz in 3 hours.

I basically was buzzed more than I thought when I went to work.

A-okay

I won't judge you.

A-what happened?

How the hell do you puke at work and get away with it. Now I'm just curious.

SK-I had a get together and we drank until about 2:00. I work at 6:00 and I couldn't call in because I was slurring my words. I just said fuck it and went in.

I'm a guy who does whatever the fuck I want. I also take risks and live a dangerous lifestyle.

So in hindsight I this was all nice to happen but, thanks to HD I'm still learning. You never stop learning and improving guys.

Remember to try to look at the frame of what is sent to you. Remove that and put out the frame you want. If your frame is stronger, by default you absorb her weaker frame.

Hope you enjoyed this read .

Meehan

Tl;Dr learn to use frame control