hi guys this women and me have been on off for while. I had the old where is relationship going talk because I was seeing someone else I asked her to be friends and see where it ended up.
that night we slept together all was good called her to get together week after I got shut down.
didn't talk for month until I had party around my house she and her mates come round and she hooks up with one of my mates in front of me not cool so leave it
we all went on holiday together a week later and I sleep with her friend thinking it was over between us.
she comes running back saying I love u cant be with out you but im seeing 2 other men I have to sort things out, fair enough I thought.
but the girl says she likes other bloke more than me.
I say ok n stop talking to her for 3 days starts msging me saying im on the town come out.
I was on date so I let her know this and gets bit jealous
she then invites me to pub 3 days later with friends out
gives me abut 4 ioi rubbing my leg with hers, her hand on my legs, doesn't leave eye contact
then she drops the old friendzone approach saying I love u cant stand for you not to be in my life your my best bloke friend OUCH!
I rub my foot up n down her leg dosent move she likes it still, leaving I don't even get a goodbye she shut down.
next day msg read I hope we can be friends I don't want to loose u


please some advice this girl is doing my head in ive got onitis

Hi Fish84:

If you post this question in the proper forum I am sure you will get some good responses to your question. Check out the rules of this forum. Good luck.

You have posted this in the lounge, should be under general questions I think. Here is some advice anyway...

It seems as if she doesn't have any respect for you. Maybe she is playing power games, enjoying how you come running after her as soon as she says you are her favorite, and "crushing" you by shutting down on you. Maybe she is sincere, and your immediate physicality is too much for her (maybe too bold, maybe too easy-to-get), making her loose interest.

First you need to respect yourself. Make it clear (to yourself) what kind of behavior you accept from a girl, and have boundaries. I would never accept being with a girl who sleeps with other guys while she is "sorting things out". I would tell her to sort it out first, and to come back when it's done. IMHO I think she's gone too far already. Ditch her. Maybe it was your fault from the beginning though, I can't say.

ditching her sounds like best option thanks mate