Hey guys,

Its been a while since i've been on the forum, as my goals now extend beyond the scope of this forum, however, i do believe this forum has given a lot to me in my search for what attraction is, and am now of the ability to give back to it. While some of us find PUA simply in search of a way to have sex with more girls, many of us (including myself) came here looking for a way to get that one "special" girl. In my life i went from being deeply entrenched in the friendzone with the girl of my dreams to listening to her moan and scream my name on a daily basis. So to those who have heard it can be done, yet have never seen it done, here goes:

Middle School: I meet Carley as a result of my best friend dating her. I dream of being with her yet for some reason "know" that it will never be. She only sees me as a friend at this point, but one that she enjoys her time with regardless. While my chances to touch her or be touched by her are rare, i savor every second of them. My social status in this period is around a 5 (1 being the kid who no one realizes exist, and 10 being the kid who gets all the girls).

High school Frosh: I go to private school for a year where i barely ever get to talk to Carley. It is an all boys school and i maintain no consistent female interaction until i start talking to one girl from my town. It seems to go well at first yet i make the classic mistake of getting too clingy. In my despair, i google "how to get my gf back," even though looking back at it, i had never been anything close to being in a relationship with her. Regardless, I find the world of PUA and my journey begins. My social status at this point is still a 5.

High School Soph: I get back to public school to find Carley is now in a relationship with the best looking guy in the school who also happens to be the lead singer of his rock band. Tough fucking competition some might say. I sit on the sidelines trying to get better with girls and understand more about attraction, while getting the occasional opportunity to be physical with carley, which i enjoy very much. My social status has become a 6.

High School Junior: Carley and her boyfriend break up, and the social circle i had been a part of starts to disband as many of the older kids have left for college. I maintain a very strong friendship with carley and might even say i was her best male friend at the time. She still however views me as someone she would not want to lose and cannot be anything more with me. She sees other people, and i find myself hooking up with the first girl of my high school career, some HB 6.5 at a party while i was hammered. Most would say i settled on that one but i didnt give a shit, and was pretty happy with myself. I am now somewhere around a 7 on the social scale.

Summer going into senior year: I hangout with carley all the time, sometimes even alone, which made me very happy. She always loved being around me and would always smile, which i really loved too. Sometime over the summer i lose my virginity to an HB8 blonde. I soon find myself in the tv room of my house basically dry humping with carley for 5-10 minutes on the couch while our friends slept 5 feet away from us. I had my hand under her bra grabbing her tits at one point but never actually kissed her. I hook up with her best friend the next night. Some might say rookie move, but in my situation it was the move as i showed i wasn't too serious about hooking up with people.

Senior Year: I stop talking to carley and start partying with the popular kids as i quickly climb the social ladder to the top. Over the course of my senior year alone, i fuck 12 girls (all HB7 or ^), throw the best parties, and hangout with all the coolest people. I become known as a player and even though i was well hated by some, every girl wanted at least something to do with me. Towards the end of the year, my old friend throws a massive houseparty where i see carley in a party environment for the first time in months. We instantly vibe with one another as we've always enjoyed being around one another regardless of social situations. I spend the night just having a dope time with her at points and without her at others, and by the end i invite her and her friend back to my house with my bro i was with to smoke (everyone smokes pot in my town). We had all been good friends at some point or another so it worked great. Afterwards i take her into my bedroom and fuck the shit out of her having never actually hooked up with her before. My social status through senior year was around a 9 to 9.5.

We continue to have sex for the rest of the school year and summer despite the drama it caused and eventually enter into a relationship which has made both of us the happiest we have ever been.


While i realize this is not really a "how to" guide, those reading should also realize that by senior year, i knew EXACTLY what i was doing and exactly why it worked. I believe this community has helped me enter into the world of attraction and i believe i now have something to give back to it. For those who had heard it is possible to get out of the friendzone, but have never seen it or heard of an actual story of it being done, i am living proof it is possible so long as you believe it to be.

If you have any questions regarding what i have said, would like something explained, or think i could be of some assistance to you in your endeavors, I would love to help. Please feel free to comment!