Hey guys,

I figured the lounge is probably the best place for this / it's theory really, because it's a recurring problem a lot of guys have, rather than asking about a specific girl (eg "And then I met this girl in 3rd period science class and she didn't talk to me at lunch! What should I do?!")

Lately I've been having a dry spell or drought, not just with the girls, but with guy/girl friends/ as well.

Naturally, wings are always good because they can keep the orbiter chodes busy while you work on getting laid, but wings don't have to be your friends.

A lot of dudes like to wing with their friends, and even without doing that, a good solid base of friends is something you've ultimately got to have if you want to be healthy enough to come across right to girls.

I have three friends who moved away with no notice, all within a two-week span.

Another friend just started grad school full time, and I can't get him to come out with me for a beer.

Another friend got married.

Three more just got sporadic with their texts and I just don't hear back from them about anything really.

I know there's that whole theory on "to go out alone or not to go out alone" and I'm sure that's an option. When I go out by myself I'm batting 500, a "good" night still not being amazing/extraordinary. A bad night out alone is disastrous for me.

But still, has anyone ever heard of a dude going out alone and scoring major hot girls, without having any friends in the first place?

What do you guys do when you hit a dry spell with girls and friends too? What do you do about it?

_________________
Http://Dating-Musings.com

aaaaand nothing. As I thought. I must be the only guy in history whose friends have moved away.

_________________
Http://Dating-Musings.com

had the same problem.

was a conservative muslim with restrictive family (still have one) for 17 years.

I'm not that hot, and all my friends are useless or gone.

I've never had a relationship or girlfriend, yet recently, I decided to just fuck it. I don't care about what people think, I just went to the bar wiht the sole purpose of practical joking every girl I saw. I don't want her number, I don't want her to fuck me, I just want my cheap laugh.

Ended up making out with a chick for the first time in my life, alone, no friends, 7:30 pm not even late night..and the girl was gorgeous, way 'above my league'.

If I can do it, you sure as fuck can.