So gamed this girl on myspace which if you don't know is a very difficult task to achieve.HB8, Anyway after 5 or 6 messages back and forth I got her # and she said to call her anytime. So I called the other day with my intention to set up date for bowling. Quick conversation, she was at the store with her Mom, tried for thurs. she had school and had to babysit so I she said Sat. would be good so I said I'd call her later in the week to set it up. I threw a little text game at her today and she responded. I know she recently broke up with her ex, and the possibility if them getting back together could still be there. I don't want her to flake out and we haven't talked much except myspace and short phone call I was thinking about calling and chatting it up with her a little on the phone to establish comfort but I'm not great at phone conversation. Any advice, and after bowling should I push for the full f-close?

sounds like your chasing her, which is dlv and gives the impression you are needy, which in turn will make her unattracted. dont move so fast you just met her, let her contact you, and when she does dont be so eager to set up a date.

its definately too soon to be thinking about a f close, just concentrate on establishing a connection with her first, have a few conversations on the phone with no intentions of anything other than conversation first. this doesnt mean you cant be flirty though, everynow and then during the conversation try being cocky and funny, say things that can have various meanings and insinuate things of the sexual nature.

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umm, k. Critique time.. When I do myspace game, I random add mabye 10-15 girls at a time. Hide comments and delete the..

'thx for the add
who are you
xx'

coz some girl use your ID to get into your comments. ok, so you post the same msg to all 15 girls.

'hey, heidi (for example) soz for the randon add lol, i was bored earlier. So how are youu? nice spce btw, hot pik.

come chat to me on msn if you have it, its heaps easier than this commenting stuff. Grab my address off my profile, come on. Coem tell me your life story lol.

X.o'

trust me, you can afford to be picky on myspace and you can afford to treat women like garbage on there. your a needy bastard right now.

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What a title!

you will have to chase a little bit for the myspace game and to set something up but not too much. be sure not to chat about the boyfriend, he should be a non issue.

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