One of the girls I've really liked and some how lost... We have only been on two dates (due to work schedule // living an hour apart), 1st date I k-closed, 2nd date we ended up making out in her car.... We were planning to go on a 3rd date but then she started slowly replying to texts and eventually fully ignored me (i think she got pissed i ignored one of her texts and she hasnt been the same ever since)... this was a girl who would text me 24/7 EVERYDAY. She had very high interest and i think she lost interest when I didnt f-close on the 2nd date...

She hasn't returned any texts ever since, i didnt go overboard but after she ignored a couple of my texts i backed off for a month and tried again... she still didnt reply... its been 3 months, is there some sort of opener i can use to try again?

I've never had a girl chase me like this girl once did, but she pulled a huge 180... She went from texting me 24/7 to not wanting to talk to me.... i feel like i got nothing to lose at this point since it doesnt seem like she will ever hit me up, so should I shoot her a text? what is a good opener? I always had a feeling this girl still likes me but i played way too many mind games with her and i lost her... i was being too much of a PUA instead of stickin to the relationship game...

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