Ok so I'm a first year Uni student. I met this girl who is currently driving me crazy. We got to the point where we knew each other very well, we made out alot, we slept together a few times (no sex ) but it was clear that there was mutual attraction. This is where my frustrations begin. Whenever it became clear that things were getting good between us, she would always put on the brakes hardcore and say that she didn't want a relationship because she wasn't over her ex (whom she broke up with ~ 2 months ago but apparently was really into, he took her vcard etc).

Now normally I would take this as a veiled and polite way to say I'm not into you or whatever, so then I said ok well lets just be friends then (reverse ljbf i guess). she wouldn't have any of that and said no I just want to take it slow I really like you bla bla bla. Anyways, this little cycle repeated itself twice, and all the while I found myself becoming more and more into her (Iguess you want what you cant have) anyways, the most recent time she still didn't want to ljbf, just wanted to take it slow or whatever and I said I've had enough, if you really want anything to happen prove it and make some effort. She said ok but then didn't call or do anything for a week almost (legitimately she did have midterms but still radio silence is a bit much)

anyways, I am losing it. I really fell hard for this girl she's awesome. we spoke since the silence and it was as if it were over she just said it was bad timing or some bs. It really sucks cuz i see her 3x per week in class.

I feel like I've done everything I can but its such a waste to just walk away after so much time and I told her that, I said I wasn't giving up on her, let me make you feel happiness bla bla bla it felt like the end of 'Hitch'. Anyways I'm really distraught because I let myself believe that something could come of this and now theres nothing. she even made up some excuse not to hang out tonight (I know the excuse was fake b/c I know her schedule/habits) so now I feel very AFC.

HOW DO I MAKE HER LIKE ME AGAIN?!? I can't stop thinking about this girl

dude, you said it yourself..
don't make yourself seem to needy, in class make talk to other girls, make sure she sees you..if it seems like you're over it etc she will start to wonder why you're not into her anymore etc.. then she will want to qualify for you again..start saying crap like i've missed you..missed talking to you, hanging out etc..

go have a look about the one-itis which is basically what you have.. you have to also personally get over her in the sense that you must not make her such a big deal..obviously she knows you're prioritising her so freeze her out..make new friends..expand your social circle..show that you cn make it on your own..

dont txt her etc for a while and see how that goes..

hope it helped [/quote]

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This girl seems like a lost cause dude, sorry. I seem to have to say this everyday lately on this forum, must be seasonal depression gettin' our boys all sentimental, but once again: The cure for one-itis is to go fuck ten other women.