Hello gentlemen, I'm not a lurker on this board or anything. Just couldn't find the right place to ask this question.

I'm sure with your experience you discover that women want a challenge. Basically, her feeling like she likes/needs you more than you like/need her. You being too available, verbalizing your love for her all the time (if you disagree, go ahead and spam her with "I love yous", see how long she'll stick around).

When I think about this, sometimes I lose respect for the female specimen. With a 75% divorce rate here in California and women filing 2/3 of the time, I sometimes think they have a shallow understanding of romantic love, akin to a cat walking away bored from a dead mouse. Well, whatever. It is what it is. So I'm here thinking that maybe if I rationalize why they respond to a challenge, my view will change. Please add to the list if you can, or go ahead and argue in disagreement.

1. It corresponds with an abundance of resources. A man who is content does not require anything external, and thus is more psychologically communicative of being a sufficient provider.

2. You are different. Every guy calls her within two days and reacts desperately to the slightest indication of her interest in them. She wants a turn on the other side for once.

3. She's biologically similar to a cat.

4. She's been wired to respond sexually this way due to millions of years of conditioning and evolution of being lower in the social caste, until recent years of equal rights, feminism, and hollywood lovey dovey brainwashing (assholes). In fact, I innately think all men have within them what women (excluding gold diggers) find attractive, until we were brainwashed by the media to ravish them with stupid pricey gifts and other stupid approval seeking behavior.


I'm out of ideas for now.