is dancing with a girl really a IOI.. like at a club last night i was dancing with 20+ chicks but i would dance with them for a song of two and then move on(it was my first time in the club so i was basically just happy i was able to overcome shyness and dance..)

so is it an IOI if i go up to a girl on the dance floor and ask her to dance and she says yes and we dance, or is i more of a "w/e lets just dance..".



also when a girl says she has a BF with her when you ask her to dance, is that normally truthful? or just an easy letdown... one girl i asked and she said she was with her boyfriend and said see there he is.. that happened a few times..

just looking to understand the club life better

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Well dude if you went to a club for the first time and danced with 20 girls you've been a lot more sucessful than me. I go to clubs a lot because im a student but I think the BF line is probably MOSTLY truthful. When you ask a girl to dance that's pretty much an opener in a club, not an IOI. Obviously she is more likely to be physically attracted to you if you're dancing with her rather than saying no she doesn't want to dance. You have to look out for body language really to decifer IOI's when dancing in my opinion.