| Ok so here it goes:
There is a reason why guys complain all the time they don`t understand women. I`m not going to put myself apart from these men, living with two woman in my house I`m completely sure that I don`t understand half of what they mean.
But anyway, I thought we should give it a try at the topic of understanding the basic principles behind attraction and understanding female psychology.
Around here you will read a lot about other principles like "Leave her better than you found her", but let`s aim to the real ABC stuff: the how to get her in order to leave her better than I found her?
The right questions are among the lines of: what do you have to offer?
You say you want to attract beautiful women, smart and successfull; but seriously what do you have to offer?
This makes me think a bit of a contract with girls right off the bat, you are both agreeing on seeing each other because you are exchanging.
So like the mentalist says in one episode: Love and Affection.
Funny to me, turns out a respected member of this forum also adviced me once to learn the 5 love lenguages, a lot in common with theses principles.
LOVE:
There is not much you can show on your first eye contact, nor your first talk with the girl, so all you need to care about here is actually being a loving person with your loved ones. Put yourself to the task of actually being loving and caring with those who deserve it to your eyes. When the time comes of showing this to the girl you like, you already practiced it, nothing new to you.
AFFECTION:
Now this does takes place on your first meet. And I also believe that affection is hidden within kino, I believe that people are more receptive to you when you touch em. So take a deep breath, look at the girl deeply in the eyes and hold her hand while you are saying whatever the hell it is you are saying. Send her the messege that you can understand how she feels/ what she believes/ what she thinks about a certain topic, and that`s actually all you need. You don`t want to give her possible solutions, if she opened up to you with a subject of matter there is no need for you to talk every possible solution your mind can figure.
Just be there for that girl, for that moment, for that present time.
BE CREATIVE:
One of the most attractive topics to me around pick up is the idea of having a fun, interesting style of life. Never aim for less then fun, if you are doing so it`s boring and no one wants to be around a math teacher. So if you are planning on going to the movie as a first date, re- think that and actually go crazy on it. You have a bike? Ask her to go for a ride if the day is great.
Work with what you have, this makes you work on your imagination the proper way while actually giving some thought to the girl you are seeing. Girls notice this, I believe that`s a keeper.
Rock her world. This is another principle.
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