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Heywood Jablowme
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you're not supposed to post your about one particular girl, so then I won't.

its a simple question really, therefore it should have a simple answer right?

my typical mo would be just not return phone calls or text messages.

but what if you have an FWB for a long term and you simply want to move on. but you want to remain friends truly and not crush any feelings.

mostly to me it would be like pulling off a bandaid quick enhanced in agony! but over quickly.

any input would be appreciated.

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Talk to her. Be pleasant and tactful. Give her a good reason and perspective for why it won't work. Point out what you have a problem with, but make it known that another person might not care about it and make sure she does not feel bad about it. Then you're friends and that's that.
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I do this a lot. I'm really close with all my ex's (except this last one). It's just about being mature about it. Rationality is important on both sides. Just explain your feelings and genuine desire to stay close. Usually I will keep up the exact same energy and attention with them but keep the sexuality levels low. It's a fine line. But you're basically putting her in friend zone. Think about the women that have done thst to you. Mimic those actions.
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Talk to her. Be pleasant and tactful. Give her a good reason and perspective for why it won't work. Point out what you have a problem with, but make it known that another person might not care about it and make sure she does not feel bad about it. Then you're friends and that's that.
Tactful is the perfect explanation. I read a quote here recently. It went something like this....

"Tact: the ability to tell someone to fuck off and make them excited to do so."
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Talk to her. Be pleasant and tactful. Give her a good reason and perspective for why it won't work. Point out what you have a problem with, but make it known that another person might not care about it and make sure she does not feel bad about it. Then you're friends and that's that.
This is the approach I took. Appreciated!

But unfortunately the memo got stuck in the paper try of her brain, the message isn't going through.

She is understanding and willing to give me 'time'. And we can work it out, and what not.

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The gentlemanly thing to do would be to palm her off onto a good guy who you know will look after her and give her the time and attention she deserves.

This was how I broke it off with an FWB 2 years ago. We are still good friends and she is still with the same guy 2 years on.
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The gentlemanly thing to do would be to palm her off onto a good guy who you know will look after her and give her the time and attention she deserves.

This was how I broke it off with an FWB 2 years ago. We are still good friends and she is still with the same guy 2 years on.
Great Idea I've actually done that, although it did not work out as well as your example.

Logistics in this case however, are a problem, I don't know any Bros in her area.

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You could always go out solo on the prowl looking for a good man for her, since you will be out pulling other chicks anyway!! Interview the guys, find out what their financial situation is, Do they have any abusive/narcissist tendencies etc. Open some guys when it's early, before the club gets full (you wont be pulling at that time anyway). Then invite your girl out, stroke the guy's ego, big him up to your girl and leave her with those guys and move on to another venue.
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Tactful is the perfect explanation. I read a quote here recently. It went something like this....

"Tact: the ability to tell someone to fuck off and make them excited to do so."
I love that definition. Definitely going to have to use it in the future along with the other advice on here. Honestly, I'm terrible about ending things on a good note, which is too bad because, if done correctly, some ex's can be turned into wonderful pivots since they already have a deep background with you.
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I think honesty is the best policy. She deserves it.

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