Now if you are not sure what i mean by this, opener is something we in the community use when we open, they may be routines, or we may make our own but in any case it makes us interesting enough to talk to(in most cases) but then we give them to the community, and once we suck it dry of every possible use AFCs get wind of it and it becomes a pickup line, ie a cheesy line everybody and his mom knows about and it only says one thing "i am so unoriginal and lame i must use this old washed up stuff", but at what point does a good opener become a cheesy pickup line?

When you use it during approach and you get the "Jesus, if I had a nickel for every douche that tried this line on me I'd be rich"?

When you go up to a woman say something authentic and genuine and you will never have to worry if it sounds like a PU line.

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Don't worry about that bro, i always make my own openers(unless i read some very funny one on the forum that is but 9/10 times it is my own stuff) this is just scientific curiosity.

You can say anything you want as long as it's not your mouth doing the talking.

What is that supposed to mean, not my mouth doing the talking, what part of my body should be talking then? My ass?

Your body language.

The difference between an opener and a pick up line is usually that an opener is context related and comes off as sincere and confident.

To put it in an applied terms, it's the difference between saying something like,
"Hey, can you recommend a good wine?"
versus
"Hey baby, wanna come back to my place for some wine?"

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If you want to avoid it from being a cheesy pick up line use openers you create or feel comfortable with. If you're not fluid with the opener you sound less confident and it just comes off horribly.

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Or, as I realised, you could be more visual in opening or "approaching" a woman.

For instance, i've taken to just checking a woman out and not backing down, forcing eye contact. I've found 9/10 women will approach you. If you have the confidence to back it up these women are going to see high value in you; you come across as mysterious and sexy. Of course, this only works on confident women, as in very attractive women(The type that have men hoovering around them) so if you're setting your standards low and these women aren't very confident you're probably going to intimidate them.

Try it. Next time you're out eye fuck the shit out of a woman. Put on your best "I want to fuck you" eyes, look her in the eye and wait for her to break contact. Eventually she'll come to you after the second or third time she notices you checking her out because she knows you're interested and she's confident enough to go for something she seems valuable enough for her.