I'm not doing well anymore in the dating game. A few years ago i had 36 great experiences with 36 different women. Something happened.

I validated what ever needed validating and kinda lost interest in dating. I stopped. Then a year or two later, when i wanted to start dating again i didn't get results. All the learned thought patterns were gone, the check points i'd learned to work toward weren't charted in my mind anymore.
Things have just gone dead.

This year i didn't put any stock in finding ladies but used POF. I had a financially challenging year due to some legal shit. I got past that in October. Taking a look back at the year all i really did was go take a class, and follow a strength training program. I worked on a few projects that can be some performing art projects and money making ventures in the future but in the dating department i wasn't in the position to date so i didn't.

With my legal shit behind me I'm ready to figure out how to think again. How to manage the negotiation process of co ed interaction. I can't for the life of me remember what got me results and what didn't. I really downloaded 550 gigs of learning material. Plus what i deleted or didn't back up. I recall some things working and some things didn't but not well enough where i can search for an author and make a folder of 5 or 10 of the necessities so i can get something going.

I'm a firm believer that using someones provided instructional i can deflect rejection better thinking i need more practice or i need more information to utilize. This tactic keeps me trying longer.

I think lance and adam were people i got the most use out of and will go see what products i have but any information you guys have about what you did or what you seen people you coach do might prove helpful.

I know you are having a hard time remembering, but maybe you can go back in your mind and think about 1 of the specific girls of the 36? Rather than trying to remember an entire process, instead of thinking of all 36 as a hazy block of memory, try to remember just 1. Can you remember where you met her? Maybe you even have a vague idea of what she was wearing. Do u remember what you said to her? What she said to you? Try to re-live the entire interaction with that 1 girl from start to finish. Then repeat this on another girl from the 36. You had a system that works and maybe by breaking it down like this you can start to put your unique process back together. Other than that you're on the right track with studying some material.