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PostPosted: Thu Nov 14, 2013 7:12 pm 
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I've been doing well lately, confidence is flowing and I make girls laugh consistently. However, there is this one girl, she works in a supermarket I see her when I buy my cigerettes, she usually serves that section. The problem is, I feel really attracted to her because of her looks and sexual appeal, she smiles often, only with her I get approach anxiety and lose my confidence. I want to just ask her for her number directly but the problem is I want to avoid a flake if she rejects because her colleagues will hear me and she's at work, I don't know where I will find her alone. Once I get the number, I know its easy steps from there. Advice please?

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PostPosted: Thu Nov 14, 2013 7:48 pm 
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I've been doing well lately, confidence is flowing and I make girls laugh consistently. However, there is this one girl, she works in a supermarket I see her when I buy my cigerettes, she usually serves that section. The problem is, I feel really attracted to her because of her looks and sexual appeal, she smiles often, only with her I get approach anxiety and lose my confidence. I want to just ask her for her number directly but the problem is I want to avoid a flake if she rejects because her colleagues will hear me and she's at work, I don't know where I will find her alone. Once I get the number, I know its easy steps from there. Advice please?
She's a hired gun, which already makes her hard to game, and the fact you already have her on the pedestal will make it virtually impossible. Play it cool and indirect. If you just randomly ask her for her number, you are going to fail with about 99% probability. Sneak your way in.

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PostPosted: Fri Nov 15, 2013 2:08 am 
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She is paid to smile at you. Unless she has dropped some concrete clues that she is in some way into you, is it even worth it. If you go in cold to get the # like the last poster said it will probably backfire. Have a BRIEF 1-2 minute convo with her and go from there. Tell her to put her # on the receipt so it doesn't look so obvious.


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