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PostPosted: Fri Oct 11, 2013 1:13 pm 
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Hey guys this is from my blog but i ask myself permission to post here since i really believe this can make an immediate impact in your seductions....

I can not believe It took me this long to figure this out. See, my style of seduction is very similar or identical to 60 Years Of Challenge, the difference is I mainly do it on the dance floor. But when my buddy Warped Mindless told me about 60 Years Of Challenge and I read it, I was like shit that is exactly what i have been doing for years as a natural. Anyways, so my curiosity let me to youtube (first video at the end of the post). So the first time I watched the video i thought, “uhmmm I don’t do that shit, sounds like retarded marketing”.

It was not till couple of years later (about 2 months ago) that I came across infield footage of good looking loser (second video at the end of the post), that I notice him holding the hand of the girl without letting go. So my first thought was ”that is retarded”. Then, I was like “oh shit, 60 Years Of Challenge advises the same shit”. So I started trying it and feeling comfortable with girls I knew (eating shit, just testing) and I notice a bit of sexual tension (bingo), that is all I needed to know.

Lately after the clubs I visit a friend of mine that is security, in one of the after hours were everybody goes after the clubs. So couple of dudes know i am skills and i do dance floor game, but me and my ego wanted to show them i am not one trick pony, so i told myself, let me show these kids how is done (and pass my biz cards for coaching). So I have been opening and seducing girls after hours and incorporating the milking the handshake. THAT SHIT WORKS!
So my advise to you is to try it first with female friends, or warm girls that you know, get comfortable with it and get to the point were there is that uncomfortable sexual tension on her part. Make sure she gets to that point, or not. But, the most important thing is that you stay unaffected. When I was experimenting with it, girls never got uncomfortable, neither when I tried this technique on my seductions.

This shit is gold, I can not believe I never used this simple escalation step before or taught it, I am kind of mad at myself for that. Anyways, for a live example watch how good looking loser does it in the second video ( I do not do it like he does, i do a normal handshake), but the video shows how he holds her hand and does not let go. The first video by 60 Years Of Challenge is the explanation, fast-forward to minute 3.24 to skip the long intro.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x1NTe0c-jZs[/youtube]

here is a live demonstration by good looking loser (skip his boring long intro. get to the seduction part):

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dNOMk0HN6sY[/youtube]

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PostPosted: Fri Oct 11, 2013 1:50 pm 
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I really liked the first video about the handshake - I think I can safely say I would be the first person to let go normally.

One question I do have though is how much pressure to use?

i.e shaking a mans hand is normally a quite firm but comfortable grip, which projects some confidence and sincerity. where as if you had a 'weak' handshake it would say the opposite about you, shy, reserved, insincere etc.

whereas using that same handshake and pressure might be uncomfortable or even potentially hurt a woman's hand.
Normally I try to mirror her own grip, plus a little more to assert that I'm in control of the interaction. is this the best way forward?

--I'm in the middle of watching the second video, as I'm writing this--


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PostPosted: Fri Oct 11, 2013 2:50 pm 
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I really liked the first video about the handshake - I think I can safely say I would be the first person to let go normally.

One question I do have though is how much pressure to use?

i.e shaking a mans hand is normally a quite firm but comfortable grip, which projects some confidence and sincerity. where as if you had a 'weak' handshake it would say the opposite about you, shy, reserved, insincere etc.

whereas using that same handshake and pressure might be uncomfortable or even potentially hurt a woman's hand.
Normally I try to mirror her own grip, plus a little more to assert that I'm in control of the interaction. is this the best way forward?

--I'm in the middle of watching the second video, as I'm writing this--

^ forget about hand shake projection, grip etc...all of that just lead to over thinking and mental masturbation.. With that being said mirroring her grip is probably how i normally do it( i never really think about stuff like that, but i will go with that one)

Just try to not let go of the hand, by the way as i am holding her hand i am talking normally (like if i forgot i am still holding her hand).

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PostPosted: Fri Oct 11, 2013 3:28 pm 
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Love it! Use it all the time.


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PostPosted: Fri Oct 11, 2013 4:06 pm 
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I was using this last night. Worked pretty well I have to say.

I opened by teasing a girl, disqualifying myself and not being interested in getting to know her, instead talking to her friends and keeping her thinking of me the whole night. About an hour later I finally introduced myself to her and held the handshake. She was actually drawn in, interested and wouldn't let go of my hand. It was a sure thing. Did it on another girl I was talking to and her attraction actually seemed to spike.

It's pretty good and I find it naturally easy to do it in a confident manner.


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What are your thoughts on interlocking fingers with her. Should this be done or is it better to simply play with her fingers?


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PostPosted: Tue Nov 05, 2013 3:17 am 
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What are your thoughts on interlocking fingers with her. Should this be done or is it better to simply play with her fingers?

To be honest i don't do much interlocking(not even with my gf), so i never talk about what i don't do on the field... So lets' see if there is someone that does interlocking that may jump in and answer.

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PostPosted: Tue Nov 05, 2013 3:23 am 
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What are your thoughts on interlocking fingers with her. Should this be done or is it better to simply play with her fingers?
You're over thinking this. At this point in time, I interlock my fingers with girls all the time. Get your body close to hers and then covertly rub your elbow to one of her nipples. Don't think about it. Just go ahead and do it.

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PostPosted: Thu Nov 07, 2013 6:37 pm 
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That was awesome. So random, so natural, back-and-forth banter. He lifted the handshake to a whole new level. I have had a similar experience, once, with a girl I had already met. I came close to fucking her. Mental health issues got in the way.

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